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Loss of Interest in Sex After Having Three Children

Wed, 09/21/2011 - 13:47
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Ever since my first child was born I lost the interest in sex. I have always loved sex and my husband and I always had amazing sex before I had my daughter but now I just can't get into it. I used to love for him to suck my nipples now I can't stand it and when ever I cum I lose all interest in it. Please help! My daughter is already 3 and I have a 2 year old and a 2 month old, so we still have sex. But it's not the same.. it's ruining my marriage..

Dear M,

I've Lost All Interest in Sex Since My First Child

Thu, 09/01/2011 - 16:46
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

Ever since my first child was born I lost the intrest in sex. I have always loved sex and my husband and I always had amazing sex before I had my daughter but now I just can't get into it. I use to love for him to suck my nipples now I can't stand it and when ever I cum I loose all interest in it.

Please help! My daughter is already 3 and I have a 2 year old and a 2 month old, so we still have sex. But it's not the same.. it's ruining my marriage..

Dear M,

Sex Drive in Gradual Decline Since Wedding Night

Sun, 04/12/2009 - 18:30
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty. the first time i saw you was on a dvd, which a friend of mine had received from her aunt in the states, called the history of the female orgasm. then i went to see a sex therpaist who had attended some of your trainings. i log onto your sight fairly regularly, and watch the videos. you and carla are all about sexual enjoyment, etc, etc, etc....not even sure you'll identify with my question , or be able to direct me to some resources that may help.

Bottom line is, my libido has been on a gradual decline since my wedding night. as a teenager, i didn't have much sexual experience, but masturbated, and often would feel sexually aroused, craving an orgasm..........and today i've reached a place of not identifying with the person i once was, or specifically with the eelings i no longer feel. i don't have the patience to muster up a fantasy and masturbate, i feel there are so many other things i'd rather do. you talk about speaking to friends....when i did, i discovered a lot of my friends were feeling the same way, they had lost interest in sex, and would be happy to not have to deal with it. have you ever had woman asking about lost libido's??? any insights????