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How Do I Penetrate My Hymen?

Thu, 12/01/2011 - 15:05
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Yes I'm 21 yrs old and I want to break my hymen painlessly. I know how but I don't have a dildo I'm trying to do it with my finger. I'm able to insert my whole index finger inside me. When I pull out I see some watery blood on my finger. Did I break it or did I stretch it can u give me some tips on how to break it?

Dear J,

There is nothing to "break" when it comes to the over-stated hymen along with the concept of virginity. check out our post that explains all of this clearly:

http://dodsonandross.com/blogs/betty-dodson/2011/11/hymen-myths-misconce...

Had to Have Hymen Surgically Removed. Now Afraid of Sex

Fri, 03/18/2011 - 13:38
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I'm sorry to bother you, but I have a question relating to sex, and having read through several pages of your website, I believe that you are the best person to ask. I also apologise in advance for the length of this message. This is a serious issue for me and I want to ensure that I explain it fully.

To cut down on the length a little, I'm going to summarise some
important points for you now:

* I'm twenty years old, and a virgin
* the women in my family have all had trouble with their hymens being too thick
* I have never been able to insert more than a finger without extreme pain, because the hymenal ring would never stretch, even after years of trying
* two weeks ago I finally had my hymen surgically removed

Can Your Stretch Your Hymen Without Breaking It?

Sat, 02/20/2010 - 15:48
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty,

I'm a 20 year old virgin and and I feel a little bit of pain when I penetrate my vagina (I've only been able to get one finger in so far). I plan on getting your vaginal barbell but I was wondering...is it possible to gradually stretch the hymen instead of "breaking" it? Would the barbell do that?

And/Or can I push down on the membrane to stretch it?

Dear A,