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My Boyfriend Rushes Through Sex

Thu, 12/29/2011 - 13:45
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi,

I love your site and it has helped me take control of my orgasm and know exactly what to do, and here is the problem. My boyfriend seems to prefer quickies more than foreplay, as soon as he gets erect he wants to use it. He is 48 and I am 22 and he's had some problems with erections and I think he is worried that as soon as he's ready he has to use it. This upsets me because he doesn't try to get me aroused which means it will take me longer to orgasm and so I end up not having one. How to I get him to stop stressing and relax and spend time on me. It really is frustrating.

Dear N,

Clean Dream

Fri, 10/09/2009 - 19:21
Submitted by shiramind

I was visiting him for the weekend, and oh what a weekend it was. 
The moment I got there we fell on the bed and kissed, stroked, petted,
squeezed, and moaned ourselves into a sexual frenzy, but that was as
far as it ever went.  Still, we tested our limits, going as close to
the edge as we could stand, or at least as we could imagine.

The next morning I woke up before him and made him breakfast, which
we ate between ravenous kisses.  Soon, however, it was
time to clean up and rinse off the scent of sweat from our skin,
despite the knowledge it would soon reappear.

Can You Orgasm From Nipple Play?

Thu, 08/27/2009 - 16:26
Submitted by Betty Dodson

You never mention much about foreplay. I have found that having my breasts fondled and the nipples sucked sends me into a divine orbit ready for anything he can provide. What about this important prelude to orgasm?