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I Had My First Orgasm During Sex. Thank You

Sat, 07/02/2011 - 23:18
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty and Carlin,

I don't have a question but some amazing feedback! I wrote you about a year ago asking if those little tiny good feelings I felt after I masturbated were real orgasms, you told me to stop worrying about it and just enjoy them! Hah easier said then done, but I'm happy to report back as a success story! I am 21 and have been in a relationship for over a year.. it's my longest relationship ever. Before Tyler, I had only had sex with one other man. He was the one I lost my virginity to and a good ol' fuck buddy. From him I learned the basics of sex, but didn't come once. After a while of really fun and athletic sex, he would cum, roll over and ask, "did you come?" ... I never replied, just smiled.

The Lid Came Off the Suppressed Sex Pot "Me" When I Had My First Orgasm at 46

Tue, 03/08/2011 - 17:54
Submitted by Betty Dodson

You know Betty, once again I realize how much I have learned since 2006 when the lid came off the suppressed sex pot me when I had my first orgasm.

Here's a trivial thing: Since this process started at 46 for the first time I understand the meaning behind the words of pop songs to an extent I never did before: Baby we couldn't get much higher, Baby light my fire! Alright I did get the gist of I can't get no satisfaction. The music comes first then the lyrics for me anyway.

I am leading a whole secret life in understanding sex/life. I am leading a private life in learning to connect to myself first and foremost, to defrost.

Story:

Need Advice on Helping Older Woman Have 1st Orgasm

Mon, 06/15/2009 - 18:38
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty Dodson,

I am a 33 year old man. I read your book "Sex For One" when I was probably 17 years old! Now, all these years later I come back to you to ask for your help. I am friends with an older woman (43) who has recently informed me that not only has she never had an orgasm, but she doesn't even masturbate! This made me very sad. I want to help her. I realize it is up to her, ultimately, but she has expressed a desire to learn. At this time, however, she doesn't seem to want me as a partner to help her to learn how to start playing with herself. That is ok, I just want to see her discover and enjoy her sexuality. I have two questions. 1. Do you believe there is hope for this woman ( I believe there is). 2. What would be the best way that I could help her get started? (maybe a book or vibrator?)