I Prefer "Peaking" Over Ejaculating

Tue, 08/16/2011 - 16:12
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I love your site! It's great to have someone like you out there willing to answer questions about intimate subjects! My question is this: I love masturbating, and over the years, my "technique" has grown to be more focused on the process, instead of just the outcome! Here's what I mean: I love to slowly coax myself close to the point of ejaculation many times in a row before comming! I can sometimes do this for a couple of hours before I can't take it any longer;and then, when I come, it's exquisite! I really prefer this sort of masturbation to the more hurried form I used to utilize.

I Finally Went Public with a Masturbation Video

Fri, 02/04/2011 - 09:03
Submitted by Anonymous

I bought a camcorder a couple of years ago and have enjoyed making and watching videos of myself masturbating. Until last week, I hadn't shared them with anyone but Dr. Betty and Carlin.

Encouraged by their favorable reviews, I uploaded one of my clips to xhamster.com last weekend, and it went public Monday morning. I'd like to thank virginmonoblogger for telling me about this site. I watched a few clips on xtube.com and one other before then, but xhamster seems to have a better selection of stuff. I often fantasize that Dr. Betty Dodson, the Goddess of All Solo Sex, along with her gorgeous assistant Carlin, are watching my clips and diddling!

Boyfriend Struggles to Orgasm & Loses Erection

Thu, 02/04/2010 - 10:29
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Doctor Betty,

My boyfriend takes a VERY long time to orgasm, and often goes soft before he can finish, resulting in him having no orgasm at all. He has admitted that taking a long time has always been a problem for him, and we can often end up having sex for an hour or two, often without him even managing to orgasm at the end. As you can imagine, during these lengthy sessions I get rather sore with the friction (even with lubrication) and it puts me off having sex with him, because I just know that we're going to be there for hours and I won't be able to sit down afterwards... we can never just have a quickie!

My Experiences with Women Who Think Semen is Sexy, Expanded

Fri, 01/22/2010 - 16:27
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

Here is Virginmonoblogger's blog post on how she feels Semen is Sexy. My thoughts on that are I'm happy she gave a perspective on a woman who lusts for ejaculation, the hot clenches of male orgasm, everything that goes with it. It shows the ravenous sex hunger and desire always ascribed to men also manifests itself in women as the counterpart: aching to feel that happen to them. It reminds me of how I condom up and do knock-up hot talk. Where I vocalize the fantasy of coming way up in her, filling her up with sperm and making her pregnant-- belly round and full of baby. Then have amazing sex with her throughout the pregnancy. Olivia and Kristina both love that.

Because Semen is Sexy

Thu, 01/21/2010 - 10:02
Submitted by Anonymous

The smallest things get me excited. I'm taking a trip to Wal Mart today. Not for a new television or a laptop or an mp3 player or anything. But, for your average "toothpaste-bodywash-deodorant-floss" list of things. I'm fuckin' giddy. I'm moving the potluck to tomorrow, before you think that I forgot.

Confession: I have a dirty fetish after all. Semen is sexy. I kid you not. I may be against getting spit in my face, but I would thoroughly enjoy letting a group of men run a train on me while bustin' baby goo all over my body.

Can Male Porn Stars Really Ejaculate Across the Room?

Sun, 11/15/2009 - 11:19
Submitted by Carlin Ross


please settle an argument between my boyfriend and me. We watch and enjoy porn before we have sex a lot. We are both amazed at how much a how far the guys shoot off when they come. My boyfriend says that it is fake and usually not really them coming, I say that it is real and that they are just real studs and that most of them are really well hung which enables them to shoot more and farther. By the way, my boyfriend has never come like that, but he can have multiple comes in one love making sessions, so I'm not complaining.

Erection but no Ejaculation

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Sun, 08/30/2009 - 18:14
Submitted by redhot2626

Hey everyone.  I'm new to the forums.  I did post under the new members portion as well but there was an issue with a far too enormous photo and i had to delete it --- I'll post again.  I'm hoping the corrected, new photo shows up this time.  Sheesh!!!


My boyfriend is almost 29.  We've been together for a while and I was bestowed with the honor of taking his virginity.  He's fantastic and I adore him.  He can make me orgasm through foreplay like no one else has been able to.  However, He gets really hard --- and doesn't come.  He does cum when we're having sex (i'm pretty sure -- i'm a cummer myself so I can't be 100% sure), but not with anything else.

My Matching Entry on Anal Sex with Catalina, Part Four

Fri, 07/24/2009 - 12:41
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

Hello all. I often utilize my blog to write, with each lover's permission,
on the sex I'm having in real-life. I do so of course for the sultry
entertainment value and also to illuminate for those who want to try this at home.... Read More.

Hour Long Blow Jobs Killing My Jaw

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Mon, 06/29/2009 - 12:11
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty and Carlin,

I've recently got into a typical 'teenage' relationship. 'Going out' with each other, holding hands, kissing when we think no one is looking, and generally having a great time with each other. Its not love, but its fun, and its just enjoyable. The other day, taking it a step further, I gave him head. I'm not claiming to be amazing at head, but I love giving it, and I've always had positive feedback when I do... Except, in this case, it took almost an hour to get him off, which has never happened to me before, so I was a little....Shocked.


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Mon, 06/29/2009 - 03:50
Submitted by starbuck

I am very curious about how women feel about pictures of ejaculating cocks. I have discussed this subject with my girlfriend who enjoys seeing me ejaculating after a session of mutual masturbation and it makes her own orgasm more intense. But is she unique? Do women get turned on when seeing a picture of a guy ejaculating?

Is Ejaculate Messy?

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Mon, 06/15/2009 - 15:25
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dr. Betty,

My husband and I are both in our late 20s. We've been together since high school and married for 4 years. Neither of us want children, and he has decided that he's ready to get a vasectomy, which I support him fully in. We've both read a lot about the procedure, so we know what to expect.... except in one little area. This may be a silly question, but, well... I've never had a man come inside me. We've always used condoms or the withdrawal method. We're both excited at the prospect of him being able to do this once the doctor gives us the go-ahead, but I'm wondering what to expect. Is it messy?

Easy Path to Prostate Pleasure Erotica

Wed, 04/22/2009 - 14:58
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

 Here's my third Sex Toy Erotica piece on the Aneros. The story will give you lots of ideas, but I can say this straight away: first, not all women have the hand size to comfortably, easily, and effectively perform internal prostate massage from an angle where the man is on his back. This happened to me just recently. On his knees with head down is best for those cases because gravity will aid you and the flesh of his bum will be open and will be much less an inhibiting factor with regards to bumping into it with your hand while trying to go deep inside him with your finger.

[i]The Aneros solves all that. For solo use, it makes prostate stim much easier for the guy and he can use one inside himself while his partner concentrates her or his focus on his penis. Not to mention the health benefits of occasional prostate massage in the fight against prostate cancer. I've read an article by my favorite alternative doctor, Dr. David Williams, and his "Alternatives" newsletter advocating prostate massage. I was impressed with him when he printed that article at all. It wasnt in a sensual context, but the info is the same. I also love it as a sensual exchange between a man receiving it and his partner that isnt strictly intercourse-related. Enjoy the erotica!

Eric Amaranth's Butterfly Erotica

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Sat, 05/31/2008 - 23:00
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

Jessica pulled the covers up over her bare shoulders. Laying on her side with me on my back, I remember feeling her smooth inner thigh across my stomach, pulling me into her body-grasp. With just a little thrust, she made sure I knew her vulva was wet as it kissed the space between my hip and my ass. I looked over to her peaceful face, eyes closed with a tiny smile.
"I brought the Butterfly, finally," I said. I felt her head stir on the pillow we were sharing.

"Good. I was gonna smack you if you'd forgotten it again." She smooched my shoulder and traced her fingers through the hair in the center of my chest.