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This a good time to move on to part six of my MFM threesome with Jenny and James after my recent blog post on porn star Bobbi Starr's double penetration guide and how porn sex, far more often than not, isn't real sex and isn't what people should be turning to for sexual development. Read part five of our MFM threesome story again to catch up to where we are in the sex in this part.

Jenny rocked in tiny, slow glides back and forth on top of James’s nine inch by two inch cock. He told her to think of it like her pussy was allowed to suck, but only enough to keep her vagina wet, pampered, and turned on. Jenny obeyed, her aroused C cup breasts and belly resting down against my wingman.

This morning I found an interview on fleshbot.com. It's on porn star, Bobbi Starr's new video, a guide to double penetration. That interview, from my perspective on sex, made my jaw drop. It was one of those candid exchanges you get on what's really happening in that world, at least to Bobbi Starr, and how little the majority of the sex done there has to do with what I consider to be the best of what great real life sex has to offer. If men want to do things like double penetration with women, then they have to go out and learn how to do it right so she will love doing it too.

To be clear, not all of my clients are interested in the most advanced way that I teach. It's not required to work with me. However, people have been interested in hearing a little of what happens in some of my best sex guidance sessions with those individuals and couples who are comfortable with learning in this way.

I'd searched for a figure-8 looking device that I'd seen used in the past for holding two dildos so that a woman can enjoy double penetration selfloving, partner-assisted or by herself. Looked throughout the net and couldn't find one and it was the night of a session with a sex life consulting client who had done double pen before, but only with something the size of a finger inside her bottom. Never both at penis size. She'd also had something that size in her ass by itself, but not filling her vagina too.

A woman has only so many hands for this sort of thing. Trying to control and move with skill two dildos for double penetration and do clitoral stimulation all at the same time needs a third hand. The holder fuses the two toys into one controlable unit. And it worked.

For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a fire inside to "want to feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better, maybe for the first time in their lives.

Here's a sex position that for the longest time didn't work for me. Then Olivia and I cracked it one morning.

I love this piece. Some advanced intercourse. It's the next sex toy erotica piece. I'm working on part three of my real-life erotica series, Hair Like A Long Black Curtain. It wont be long now.

Jessica pulled the covers up over her bare shoulders. Laying on her
side with me on my back, I remember feeling her smooth inner thigh
across my stomach, pulling me into her body-grasp. With just a little
thrust, she made sure I knew her vulva was wet as it kissed the space
between my hip and my ass. I looked over to her peaceful face, eyes
closed with a tiny smile.

"I brought the Butterfly, finally," I said. I felt her head stir on the pillow we were sharing.

"Good. I was gonna smack you if you'd forgotten it again." She
smooched my shoulder and traced her fingers through the hair in the
center of my chest.