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Can You Get a UTI Using a Dildo?

Wed, 06/22/2011 - 15:50
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Dr Betty!,

Yet another question. Can one contract a UTI by using a dildo for both vaginal and clit stimulation? After doing that (no anal play involved), I got a wicked one that went into my kidney and I'm a little apprehensive about getting off again using that method. (Peeing fire is definitely not fun!)

I know you are not an MD, but thought your priceless experience might be able to shed a little light on things.

M

Dear M,

Dan Savage Defines "Pegging" for Stephen Colbert

Tue, 12/07/2010 - 15:01
Submitted by Carlin Ross

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Breast Orgasms and The God named Girth, Part Three

Thu, 10/15/2009 - 23:49
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

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Mini Blog on Last Night with Olivia and the Butterfly

Thu, 06/25/2009 - 22:00
Submitted by Eric Amaranth

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My Dream Dildo

Mon, 06/15/2009 - 19:35
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Betty,

I need help finding a toy. I once bought a double dildo because I wanted something that would give good penetration but that I could "fold up," as it were, to simultaneously stimulate my clit and labia. Well, the thing I got was huge. I could get it in me but it was so big it hurt more than it pleased, and it wasn't very flexible for what I wanted, so I've only used it one or 2 times. I decided that my clit took precedence over good penetration, so I have stuck with my fingers and lots of lube to get the great O's, but I still pine for something more! I don't usually use vibrators because their too intense, so those ones with the extra clit thingy on them just won't do.

My Dildo Really Hurts

Sat, 03/15/2008 - 04:00
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I bought my first dildo a few days ago. It is a silicon "realistic" 7" penis. I have tried using it about 4-5 times now and every time it really hurts. I use water based lubricant both on the dildo and on myself. As I am pushing it in it hurts, and when the 'head' goes in, I feel pain again and I am unable to continue on. Is this normal? What can I do?

Thanks