Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
Cunts need to be visible. I have a suggestion for how to do this but first I want to acknowledge what inspired this blog. Labiaplasty is fast becoming the most popular surgery for young women. It's no worse than breast implants or a nose job or a face lift as a cosmetic procedure per se but what is concerning is it's popularity and why.
Ok, I’m going to say it: I prefer the word cunt to pussy.
I prefer it in conversation, and I prefer it in bed.
I don’t want you to lick my pussy; I want your face in my cunt.
Now, I knew that this was not the majority’s preference, but it seemed to me that it wasn’t such a radical word choice. But perhaps that’s because I’ve been a lesbian for so long. My friends were mostly split on the word, but even the ones who didn’t care for cunt, didn’t usually, actively, think the word was vile.
But now I’ve been moving more in heteroville, and talking sex with a wider range of people than my crunchy, green, lesbian mom friends, and it seems that my love of the word cunt is… not widely shared. That the word cunt is hated by quite a few. And I just don’t understand that.
Times they are a changing. This week BBC executives decided that the word – most abhorrent to women – ie CUNT has lost much of its "shock value" and is tolerable for radio and television.
An executive who cleared it for daytime transmission on flagship Radio 4 even said it would "delight" many of its audience, who would "love it". And before you get your panties in a bunch said executive is a woman.
Of course, they're facing a decency challenge but it reminds me of Betty's "cunt" moment at NOW's Sexuality Conference in 1973.
This is my best friend. She's beautiful. She looks pretty and she feels great. She is always there and never lets me down. I really like her a lot.
Sometimes shooting pictures is a great turn on. This was one of those moments. After about fifteen minutes of shooting, my photog was looking at images on the computer. I was soon pulling on my lips and gently stroking my clit. As we started shooting again, my firm, spread lips gave me away. The photog put a big pillow on the floor, and I lay back against the cold wall and got serious. The squishy sounds of my sopping pussy were even louder than my moans. In no time I was totally in the moment pulling my nipple with one hand and doing hard tight circles with two fingers on my clit. I wasn't even a little embarrassed when I stared at the photog while I licked my two favorite fingers.
I got this beautiful toy last week
I have tried it twice and wanted some pics to show
This gives me the best longest wettest orgasms I have ever had. Once I had finished coming I got some fat cock in my cunt to round off the afternoon.
The rabbit is great, but this is out of the world 10/10
I like the rabbit movement inside me pounding as if I was getting a good fucking while my partner excites my clitoris and puts a wet finger just inside my bottom
i am 38 and i think i am coming to terms with my pussy, tits, ass, and mouth as sexy. i have been married more than 10 yrs and hubby has always told me how hot these parts were. unfortunately i have always been a bit shy, or even a bit embarrased about sex and bodies. recently, i have been exploring my body secretly and fantasizing, something that i have always been reluctant to do with my husband. maybe i will eventually let him in on it (or someone else?)
in my young years I was fairly uninhibited about sex and could reach orgasm very easily. I was a great proponent of the "zipless fuck". I have had cocks of all sizes and shapes in me; some memorable.... some quite forgettable. I creamed my jeans at the sign of a bulge in a guys trousers. I still do
When I got to 40 I suddenly discovered I was capable of much better quality orgasms. With my current partner I can have up to 5 orgasms of unbelievable intensity when he goes down on me.
I love the shape of my pussy and the symetric lips. I'm told I have a sweet/salty taste and a musky smell when I start to come
I recently received a "eroscillator"
My word; the ultimate sensation. Do try it
xx
Here are a few more of my cunt. I love the photo of my cunt taken from behind - as I imagine my dad is looking, getting hard, wishing he could touch. The other photo? I always thought my lips were too big but my husband loves them.
I'm 35 years old and I have masturbated regularly since the age of 12. I cum very easily and multiple orgasms are not a problem. However, the biggest orgasms are when I fantasize about pleasuring my dad. Nothing ever has happened or ever will happen between us as in the cold light of day it doesn't really do much for me, but in my head, WOW! what a turn on.
Dear Betty and Carlin,
I have been a fan of your site for about 10 years, ever since I discovered you in an article in Glamour magazine. I tried the fantasy phone sex you recommended, and it opened up a whole new world for me in my forties. I am hornier than I have ever been, and fantasize constantly about group sex, a lesbian experience, getting my pussy lips pierced and more.
When I was growing up my mother taught me to refer to my vagina as my "cookie." As in, "make sure to wipe both your cookie and your tushie after going to the bathroom." I started sex play with my friends at 6 and had my first orgasm at 12 from masturbating, and then at 16 came for the first time with another person when my friend Paul went down on me for the first time...but all that time I could never find a word I liked for what I had down there.
i have posted a few on an adult amateur website that i found in my husbands "favorites", just to see what happened. It was amazing at what supportive and erotic comments i received. I would never have thought that "I" could evoke such feelings and thoughts in others. Even my husband, without even knowing it was me, made some very hot comments. i found this very exciting and i am now busting to have hubby take pictures or dress me sexy and show me off on "date night", how exciting!
I just love when my muff is coiffed perfectly.
Displaying my labia has turned out to be rather fun. Last night as a result of my husband's and my mutual arousal, he sucked on my pussy lips and clit for more than half an hour. I covered his face with my come, and my clit was so sensitive we could hardly fuck--but we did!
Sharing my pussy is quite exhilerating.