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Boyfriend Hates Intercourse

Wed, 01/27/2010 - 01:45
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Betty,

I've been a fan of yours for a long time, thanks for your work. I have a sex problem that seems very uncommon to me and I don't know what to do. I've written other places for advice, even getting a response from Susie Bright on Jezebel.com, but her advice wasn't helpful and I felt hurt since she basically made fun of my partner and me.

I've been with my guy for almost one year. My boyfriend doesn't like to have intercourse. I'm not really sure why, when I ask him he says he's never really enjoyed it.

Could My Anxiety Be Killing His Erections?

Sat, 01/23/2010 - 20:17
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I'm 44 a scorpio who loves sex. But I am very tense when I start having sex with a new man. I wanted to start a casual relationship with a 51 year old man. We have a common friend, and had been chatting and flirting for a while. Finally I agreed to have dinner at his house, knowing very well what it would lead to. The first kiss is always my first impression if this might go in a good direction or not. And he kisses fine. I must say, I hadn't had sex since March 97. Some very bad sex for a one night stand made me decide I'd rather not have sex than bad sex again. Yes it was that bad! I had a car accident soon after with whiplash and a brain concussion a neck hernia about a year later and then 6 months later a DVT.