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Can't Tell Boyfriend How To Get Me Off

Tue, 05/05/2009 - 21:37
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hi Betty,

I'm 19 years old and I've never orgasmed. I realize this isn't earth-shattering but I find it a problem. I've always been what you may call an "erotic" person in that sex has never been far from my mind but I've only recently started having sex (with my first love). I have a few problems. Number 1, I've never orgasmed from masturbation (and believe me I've tried many times). My boyfriend is really open to helping me but if I don't know what to do for myself, I can't tell him what I need.