betty's barbell

Betty's Barbell: From Cool & Heavy to Slick & Hot

Thu, 06/02/2011 - 13:54
Submitted by Marisa Black

Upon entering a sex shop, I usually head right to the glass and metal dildo displays. After running a fingertip along the length, I like to pick one up to feel the weight in my hand, imagining how it would feel inside me.

Drawn to sleekness and heft, I bought Betty Dodson's Vaginal Barbell. This particular instrument has played a significant role in my ever-widening sexual universe.

The ways I experience sex have grown from a specifically-administered regimen that guaranteed orgasm to an array of options. After homo and hetero encounters expanded my solosex reality, I added varied sensations, powerplay and pain, anal stim, group sex, shared and witnessed masturbation.

Need Help on Using Your Vaginal Barbell

Fri, 01/16/2009 - 15:47
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I purchased the subject item. I don't think I am performing the exercises correctly. I am not sure I am moving and isolating the correct muscles. In addition, the barbell falls out. Help please.

Dear JD,

You need to be reclining comfortably. After oiling up the Barbell, hold the larger ball at the opening of your vagina and relax. Now squeeze the PC muscle on the ball at first, then Slowly let the weight press against the vaginal opening as you continue to work the muscle. Relax in between squeezing. Gradually it will go in all the way, but often it requires clitoral stimulation to encourage this to happen.