Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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I read an article posted on www.yourtango.com on tips for women to get more compliments from their men. What I teach men in my sex life coaching work is how to develop awareness and appreciation for detail. Our culture doesn't teach straight men to enjoy details. Here are 3 tips for how I learned to enjoy the small facets of a woman's beauty and allure:

1. Understand -why- something is beautiful.

My long time fan Claudia, who wrote five blog posts worth of fantasy erotica on this man's blog, (here's a link to part five, which has a link to part four, etc.) writing and commenting on the real sex she had with a new lover recently. He's former special forces, handsome, muscular, big cock, and has of tons of endurance for non-stop, pounding sex. I hear you get that after the training and then treking around in the field with a fifty pound pack, weapon, and level IV body armor.

The University of Rochester study, published in a psychology journal, supports other evidence linking the colour to attractiveness.  Men said they would spend more money on a woman pictured in red, compared with the same woman wearing a blue shirt. Experts say that red signals ovulation or attractiveness in other species.

The researchers say that their study is clear evidence that the colour red makes men feel more amorous - even if this is only on a subconscious level. Their volunteers were told they had $100, shown the picture of their "date", then asked how much of that money they were prepared to spend. On average, wearing red meant a more expensive night out, and in general, a higher rating of attractiveness. [BBC] I never where red