anxiety

Worrying About Performance Kills Orgasm

Wed, 09/17/2008 - 14:28
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Betty,

I have had sex before but I am always questioning the right and wrong things to do..I am always wondering should we continue kissing, should i give him oral..do we have sex now, should I nibble his ears? I am clueless...Is there anything that kind of guides how it should flow or am I thinking about it too much. I think so much that when I do have sex I never have an orgasm cause I am worried if it feels good for him. I had a 9lb baby and fear  I maybe too loose. Help!

Dear Nan,