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I've mentioned in previous blog posts how I'm not always impressed by scientific studies of sex and the conclusions they draw. However, there are studies that do impress me and are a benefit to my sex life and those of my sex coaching clients. This article on the biochemical make-up of semen effecting women's moods and combatting depression symptoms is interesting.

What's been interesting for me is the conflict between readers who feel my blog is too graphic and are more interested in my sex and wellness info, then the other side who say, "Tsk, dammit..." unless they're getting the rich and chocolatey hotness every time they read my latest. Here's more of my sex life with Kira, who I introduced to you before in this blog post on Kira's first double penetration with me and a quality dildo. Was also her first night of anal sex. A week or so after that, I told her in a text how I'd been savoring that memory. She had been too, exclamation point. Quote, "More, please."

Kira peeked out from the crack of her front door. Her big pretty eyes glittered my way, then darted back out of view.
"You're early!" said she.
I pushed the black wooden door open and found my lover on the other side in just a pair of hip and thigh hugging jeans, her ass and carved, ivory back facing me, striking a little pose with her 34-26-37 figure. She turned around sharp and sexy-walked toward me. My jaw dropped at her come-fuck-my-body display:

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Here's one of the best pieces of positive feedback we've ever received. On our erotic sex education short video, Anal Play  that teaches the basic sex techniques of great anal sex in heterosexual connection:

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For those new to my blog, I write on my sex life because many of us need only read of an example of what really is possible or that they'd never thought of. It so often lights a fire inside to "want to feel that." To want to learn how to make sex better, maybe for the first time in their lives.

Here's a sex position that for the longest time didn't work for me. Then Olivia and I cracked it one morning.

Thought everyone would be interested in my first personal experience with what I'd call structural pain from consistent intercourse. By structural i mean, discomfort felt inside my penis, not on its surface or on the glans (the head).

 My lover Samantha introduced me to this sex toy. Both my teacher Betty and I have been skeptical of vibrating cockrings and past hands-free clitoral vibrators. This one rocked Samantha. I rolled the condom down, lubed my shaft, then, down went the Double Dolphin. Samantha fucked my cock at the same time she fucked herself and wouldnt stop coming and moaning with her pretty feminine sex-voice.

Hands-free is often frustrating, but this sex toy makes it so Samantha pushes and grinds down against me to get what she wants and needs on her very big clit. Both of her hands could lean her weight against my chest... and both my hands could feel, squeeze, and grip her C+ and gorgeous natural breasts. Lovers across the board are loving both breasts under my control while they ride me and play with clit one way or the other.

Hello all. I often utilize my blog to write, with each lover's permission,
on the sex I'm having in real-life. I do so of course for the sultry
entertainment value and also to illuminate for those who want to try this at home.... Read More.

Here is the start of my companion piece to my first playdate with Catalina, author of the sex blog and review site, www.catalinaloves.com. I blogged on her two postings of our wonderful night of anal sex together here: 

I twisted the lock on Xandra's door. I brought some new soywax candles this time, and she'd lit them before I came back from washing the vaginal barbell. I crossed the room to the bed and admired the almost six foot tall blond's size six naked figure. She rolled to her stomach. The subtle S-curve from her shoulders to the small of her back was breathtaking. However, not to be too overpowered by beauty, I took a moment to ground myself, then sat down next to her.

I lay under the white sheets on Xandra's bed at her place. I remember lazily stroking the length of her thigh, down and back, on my side and she on her back. It was the midday on a weekend and we had just finished some pre-lunchtime sex. She said to me,