Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
I'm a 24 year old sexually active girl who's never had an orgasm, neither with or without a partner. If I were to introduce a toy to induce my first orgasm, how likely is it that I wouldn't be able to have an orgasm without the toy afterwards? Would it help me understand what it feels like to have an orgasm so I can better identify it in the future, or would I only be able to orgasm from the toy and never from my partner or my own hand?
Dear J,
Since you are 24 and have never experienced an orgasm, I'd definitely try a vibrator and not worry about your hand or his hand getting you off. You are a victim of repressed childhood masturbation so the sooner you begin the better off your sex life will be. Check out "First Time Orgasm" by using our search engine and read it more than once. Then you can make an educated decision about using vibrators. Lovers come and go but the love affair you have with yourself lasts a lifetime. Most sexually liberated women believe that a vibrator is a girl's best friend.
Dr. Betty
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