Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
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My Romantic Love Wars: A Sexual Memoir - EBOOK EDITION |
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Betty Dodson's Bodysex Workshop DVD |
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Betty Dodson Liberating women one orgasm at a time |
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Carlin Ross Sex, Politics & More Sex |
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cajun sausage Lovin' Dr. Betty since 1996! |
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Christina Cicchelli Professional Pervert |
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WildOrchid A selfsexual, toy loving, possibly bisexual total virgin |
Dear Betty,
I'm 36 and would really like to sort out my ability to orgasm. I've just come out of an abusive relationship, going through a horrible divorce, my children have been diagnosed with a terrible illness, and it is only me who is supporting them, asked what about 'you' in all of this,.. I'd really like to get some release! And I'd like to get over a lifetime of (maybe) trust issues, but the recent ones especially (once in a lifetiem love turned very scary) and generally heal myself. I need and want to be strong and healed over these years to come and able to reach out to the joys in life, if I am to be able to sail everyone through the years and keep bringing the sunshine in. I'm seeing a sex counsellor, she recommended as powerful vibrator as possible and your name came up but I'm no more the clearer. I'm bi, but have no plan of attempting a relationship for a very long time, but I would like to take this time of privacy to heal myself, but also to enjoy my own pleasures with myself and get to know myself better. Please could you advise. I read on your site the http://www.goodvibes.com/display_product.jhtml?id=1-1-AB-BE01&kbid=61696">Hitachi Magic Wand is not available outside the US, is there a powerful one that is? I can get to a point and then it all stops.
Thank you for any help you can offer,
DL
Dear DL,
Three cheers for your current stand to heal yourself. In spite of all you have endured, if you continue on your current path of taking care of you, there are many good years ahead. One good vibrator I can recommend with the correct electrical current of 220 is the Eroscillator. Go to their website and check it out. My latest DVD "The Orgasm Doctor" shows me working with a woman who preferred this vibrator. I used to sell a black version of the Eroscillator but the supply ran out and the Swiss manufacturer can't give me a good enough wholesale price. Some of the Fun Factory battery toys (Germany) are also good.
You say you get to a point and it all stops. That would indicate you've had an orgasm and are not recognizing it as such. Back off from your clitoris for a few moments and then keep going. Keep an open mind and eliminate all your previous notions of what an orgasm is like. Search "First Time Orgasm" on my website and follow my directions. So far you're doing great. Give thanks.
Dr. Betty
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