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What am I doing wrong? I tend 2 urinate when using my magic wandor even using my hands. I've even done this while i was getting oral sex!! This is very embarrassing when your with someone!! HELP!!

Dear S,

Go to Betty's Vaginal Barbell and read my instructions on how to exercise your pelvic floor muscle. To check the strength of this muscle, insert your finger inside your vaginal and imagine you are stopping the flow of urine. If you feel very little contraction, you definitely need to exercise it. I doubt this is female ejaculation which is, however, another possibility. You'll want to observe how your are using your pelvic floor muscles. If when you get excited you push out like giving birth, you'll want to reverse that and pull up on the muscle. Until this stops, find someone who's into "golden showers". They'll love it so much you can even charge them! (just kidding).

Dr. Betty