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Thinking About Getting Breast Implants

Sun, 01/11/2009 - 19:31
Submitted by Betty Dodson

My question is about breast implants. I have always thought maybe someday I would get them. I'm finally at a place in my life where I can afford them. I am in my very early 40's and financially established, so it's the first time I have seriously considered them.

I still have conflict about going ahead with them, but I think it comes from trying to please everyone around me instead of myself. Almost no one I have talked to thinks I should do it. I am very small breasted due to a low %of body fat. My breasts are beautiful and sport magnificent nipples. I have always been appreciated for them. My husband does not think I should take health risks for cosmetic reasons.I am bisexual and love womens breasts. I am a breast person, so I would love to love more of my own. The biggest reason I might not do it is a sense of shame. Mutilating my body for beauty...is that shame my own? What are your thoughts?

Dear FF,

While I understand your love of large breasts, we seldom hear of the downside of implants. Like misplaced nipples, uneven shapes, strange bulges appearing, roaming implants and the hardening of others. Or the number of women who have had their implants removed. Even our big porn star Jenna Jaminson said after hers came out, it was a pleasure to be able to lay on her tummy again. Oh, and what do you think you will look like at seventy with a set of knockers that don't conform to the rest of your naturally ageing body?

In my opinion the fashion for big boobs will pass, and once again, our small handfuls of adorable average titties will be back in style. Breasts are basically for feeding our babies, they are NOT meant to be a sex symbol. Maybe the result of breast feeding going out of style has left everyone is longing for a "Titty Dinner." Remember, we have several generations of little girls that grew up playing with Barbie Dolls. (See our blog "Barbie Turns Fifty") Add to that all the young men who grew up masturbating to Playboy Centerfolds followed by acres of online pornography while women looked on at their competition.

The porn industry remakes their models to conform to the current fashion of Big Hair, Big Tits, Curvy Ass, Slim Waists and Long Legs. They also remake vulvas by trimming off inner lips, bleaching and dying everything pink including the anus. This includes nose jobs, blow job lips and lypo suction. So our sex entertainers and some movie stars get sent to the cosmetic enhancement industry for a makeover. Unless you are considering a job as a porn star or pole dancer, I'd keep the breasts you have right now. Instead of not doing this unnecessary surgery out of a sense of shame, I'd not do it out of a sense of personal pride by learning to love your body just the way it is and has been for the past forty-some years .

Your small titty friend, Dr. Betty

 

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Wed, 01/14/2009 - 10:13
djrafikie

 Oh dear, I love breasts too, but not for size, for the way they feel under my hands and mouth. I slept with someone who has implants some time ago, and they felt..wrong. Too hard, and without all the lovely texture of real breast tissue. There is also the risk of loosing sensation to areas of the breast if implants are used.

I prefer the real deal,  complete with stretch marks, sagging, whatever. imperfection is sexy,  people aren't supposed to look like barbie (who incidentally I think is a gross approximation of a real woman, a real person with legs that long would look deformed).
The idea of chopping off bits of the labia, or enlarging breasts, freaks me out as much as the idea of chopping skin off an infants penis. Its bizzarre and disturbing, if I went to my doctors and insisted I would only be happy if I could have two fingers amputated he would send me to a psych, and rightly so!

Having surgical alterations due to deformity (which even then I would suggest is better handled by virtue of loving yourself, and a respectful partner in bed) or to repair damage due to cancer treatment, accidents of similar, or transgender issues.. That I can completely understand, but serious surgery for friviolous reasons? Thats unneccesary risk! Why change something which is ALREADY beautiful!

 

I love older women, they are powerful, and experienced in many ways, and SEXY. I'm pretty sure if I had this lady in my bed I would be happy for her to be there, in all of her natural glory.

Two new personalities, a left one and a right one...

Thu, 02/12/2009 - 05:31
Anonymous User (not verified)

Getting implants says a lot about your sense of self worth. My suggestion to you as a man is: be proud of yourself and your body. Giving in to social pressures and buying two new fake personalities, a left one and a right one, is an affirmation of inadequacy. On top of that, in the end they never can be a substitute for the personality that you have. I am sure that the people around you do appreciate you as a person. If they don't, find better friends. Moreover, polls have born out that the majority of men prefer "au natural", with shortcomings and all.

Yes, don't do that. I'm

Tue, 07/20/2010 - 07:22
Another man (not verified)

Yes, don't do that. I'm against this kind of operations, not because of real need. And it's not exciting to discover that the true is a plastic breast. I really prefer a small one, instead of a huge but artificial one.

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