Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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Dr. Betty,

My wife and I are newly married. Although we enjoy intercourse a few times a week, she LOVES to masturbate. It gives her a different kind of orgasm she says and it is very strong. She needs to orgasm often and masturbation enables this. She started doing it very young with a girlfriend and it just grew on her. Although she has tried, we both agreed that there's no changing her now and so she should just enjoy life's simple pleasures.

She got used to masturbating around lunchtime everyday with her roomate while she was in college and so later continued while working from home for the past two years. However, now she has started working at a law firm as a paralegal. The modern workplace is just not very accommodating yet of nature's needs. I wish it was different for her. She has occasionally tried masturbating in her office when the two lawyers there are out with clients. Although they're out, she is self conscious about the noise of a vibrator and so she doesn't use one there. This is unfortunate for her because a vibrator helps her come much easier and stronger.

All the ones she has ever used are large and noisy. She said she would masturbate more often there if she could only find a small, discreet vibrator. I want to support her needs and encourage her to do this as much as possible. Between you and me, I sometimes ejaculate myself just thinking about it.

What vibrator would you suggest?

Dear TR,

What a great guy! I wish all husbands were as caring as you about their wives desire for lots and lots of orgasms. The Heartbreaker we sell on the site is very quiet. It's a quality battery operated vibe made by Fun Factory. Let me know how it worked out.

Dr. Betty