Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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Dear Betty,
(you're my hero, by the way!)

When I'm aroused, I feel the arousal in my mind and in my mouth. I start fantasizing about oral activities... kissing and licking my way down their body, sucking their toes, going up to lick and suck on their clit or cock. The same was true when I was stripping... when I was aroused, I didn't feel aroused in my genitals, I felt it in my mouth. This is all well and fine, but I'd like to feel arousal in my vulva! What are your thoughts? Anything I can do?

Dear K,

The arousal you feel in your mind and mouth is to be envied. As for your vulva and clitoris, simply a few moments of contact will get them into the act too. Sounds like you are doing just fine. Enjoy!

Dr. Betty