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Is It Normal to Be Sensitive After an Orgasm?

Tue, 02/24/2009 - 21:52
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Dear Dr. Betty,

We are a happy portuguese couple and we enjoy to give pleasure to each other. Recently we saw on portuguese TV, a documentary called "Masturbation for girls". The thing is, every time that i do oral sex and stimulate her, she enjoys it very much, achieving her orgasm very quickly, but after it, her vulva gets so sensitive that even the lightest touch can make her feel pain. And she needs to rest 15 to 30 minutes before we can continue to enjoy each other. We want to improve our sex lives and i want to be able to give her even more pleasure. What we want to know is: is it normal for her to feel this way after an orgasm? Sorry for any grammar mistake.

Best regards,

D & P

Dear D and P,

Yes, it's fairly common for a woman's clitoris to become hyper-sensitive right after an orgasm. However, she can learn to take less time to recover by continuing to breath out loud like an athlete while rocking her pelvis while you back off of her clitoris for a few minutes. I suggest that she continue to touch her clitoris lightly and allow the arousal to return. But she needs to do this, not you because she will know what feels best and you can only guess. Sometimes it helps if a woman makes some kind of sound to deal with the intense sensation of pleasure. She could also practice this alone and surprise you one night by asking you to continue while she goes on to have another orgasm or two.

Dr. Betty

 

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