Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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Hi Betty,

I am 58 yrs old.  I find it very difficult to orgasm when I masturbate manually and yet can orgasm very quickly when my husband touches me or when I use my 'Hitachi'. I would like to be able to master this skill as I understand from your books and dvds that until I can self love then I am not bringing anything into the lovemaking. The problems I have is that I am overweight so I can only just reach my clitoris, I have fibromyalgia which means that I can't keep going at it for the recommended 20-30mins and when I touch my body I feel very little sensation and yet when my husband touches me it is very sensual. I would really appreciate your thoughts on these matters. I love your dvds and books, the Hitachi is mindblowing, but the best thing you have taught me is to use oil!!! Soooo effective and yet I've never thought to do it.

Best wishes
C

Dear C,

My Dear woman you are doing great! If you can come from your husbands touch and also with the Magic Wand, you are self-sexual and bring your share to partnersex. Now it's time to change your eating habits and improve your health which will in turn improve your sex life even more. You know the drill. More fresh foods as you slowly eliminate all processed packaged crap. Organic veggies, fruits and animal products when at all possible. I call this "'Food for Orgasms." YEA team! And yes, most therapists and educators forget about the importance of using massage oil for sensuous touch. Thanks for sharing.

Dr. Betty