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How Can I Learn to Masturbate the Conventional Way?

Thu, 08/13/2009 - 18:48
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hello! I'm almost 40 and I've been masturbating all my life just by rubbing my clitoris against a bunched up piece of cloth and while laying on my stomach. The technique works for me, but it is very embarassing while I'm with a man. Can you tell me if it is possible, at my age, to learn masturbating the "conventional" way, while leaning on the back or while sitting? If yes, what do you suggest I should do?

Thank you!

Dear C,

Our recent video pod cast talks about this problem. You are still using your childhood masturbation style. It's time to upgrade your masturbation skills. Search for "first time orgasm" and get my DVD Celebrating Orgasm. You will have to practice a new position with different kinds of clit stim several times a week for at least 10 minutes or more. Then end with Old Faithful and have an orgasm. Eventually your body will respond while you're lying on your back, Be patient. It takes practice like learning any other skill.

Dr. Betty

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