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I wanna have sex with my b'friend. But I'm a virgin. I'm worried about it. My family will never accept me if I lose my virginity. BUt I cant get orgasm while having anal sex. Dunno what to do. I fake my orgasm...right b4 it hurts badly, now I'm used to it. They say, I'll have an orgasm after a few times. Buy.... I haven't had an orgasm yet. :(((
Pls help me...

Dear K,

If you can access the information on our website, you'll learn that stimulating your clitoris is the best way to have an orgasm. Even if you were doing vaginal intercoure, it would not likely give you an orgasm.

It's best to learn how to stimulate your clitoris when you are alone by using your hand or fingers with some kind of clean vegetable oil. I would also advise you to use this oil during anal sex to ease penetration. While your boyfriend is penetrating you, reach down and stimulate your clitoris. This combination will give you an orgasm unless the anal sex remains painful the entire time. In that case, Please give you boyfriend manual sex or stop seeing him altogether. Instead of remaining focused on pleasing him, he should consider your pleasure too instead of only thinking of himself.

Dr. Betty