Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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In other advice posts you offered a woman to "move on" from a former B/F who became a lame lover... your own Historic relationship account you pondered if you "might be addicted to self love..." I related. I'm a man who starts off a relationship passionately, then it fades away rather quickly. My last relationship lasted four years. The last 18 months sexless. Where may I learn specifics in being a more attentive, better lover as a man? Do you offer your therapies for men with these problems?

Thanks,
L

Dear L,

I wouldn't say "addicted" to self-flove but rather it's a preference. While partnersex is wonderful, it poses challenges for many. A big part of the problem in my opinion is expecting sex to remain passionate after living with someone. Another aspect we seldom consider is that many of us wax and wane on wanting hot sex with another person, especially when engaged with a creative project. Often it's much easier to just have friends and enjoy sex with oneself. As for learning more about becoming a better lover, there are a gazillion books on the subject. My book Orgasms for Two would be a good start.

My practice focusses on women's orgasm. I have worked with couples but stopped working with individual men. You could contact Eric Amaranth, (ericamaranth@gmail.com) He was my apprentice and is now available for private consultations. Congratulations on wanting to learn more about sexual skills. Too bad more guys don't do the same.

Dr. Betty