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I am a 68 yr. old woman, very young and energetic for my age , sexually active, my boyfriend is 57 and gets me so excited that I never need lubrication. I seem to get wet when he just touches or kisses me....unbelievable, however I have a difficult time reaching climax. I never took any HRT...do you think I should see my gyno as maybe my hormone levels are off thus making no blood flow to my clitoris? He seems frustrated for me as well as I am...do not want to lose this relationship because of this problem...what shoud I do? Please suggest something or something natural as I am afraid of hormones.

Thanks so much...A

Dear Adrienne,

Sounds like you're having a great sex life. Congratulations! I think you'd love my book Orgasms for Two where I talk about the many ways couples can share orgasms. I hope you're not trying to come from penetration only. That worked for me occasionally in my twenties but by my mid-thirties I definitely needed to include some kind of direct stimulation for my clitoris during vaginal penetration. Eventually I ended up with my Magic Wand on my clit with boyfriends dick in my pussy. Whopeeeee! The best of both worlds.

Just don't get caught up in coming to please HIM. When we get older, we don't have to come every time we have intercourse. Or you might want some other form of stimulation afterward for your orgasm. Be creative. The Magic Wand is to women what Viagra is for men when it comes to getting blood to flow into our vulvas for our erections. Women have nearly as much erectile tissue as men. Now go and enjoy your next session with Lover Boy.

Dr. Betty