Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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Do you agree that women like being led in the bedroom by a strong man who excites her. I know some women love to be man handled (oviously to a point) and taken by a real man. if the man knows how to have sex right she will have the best experience of her life. And feel a stonrger sense of exctasy all over her body rather than just in the vaginal area. Women have told me and also i see other products showing with similar responses. Women love being taken by a man inside the bedroom so she can just let go and unleash
her sexuality. IN your opinion why is that.

Dear A,

When I hear words like "strong man" or "real man" I want more clarity. While it might be true that "being taken" or "man handled" will turn on some women, in my experience many of us prefer a more subtle dance. A strong lead is desirable but not to the point where there is pain or the woman has no input. While its' true I have rape fantasies and imagine being helpless, in reality I want to take turns leading and following. Don't assume that rough handling will drive her "wild with passion" unless you are role playing with prior agreements after negotiating a safe word to end the action.

I've had this conversation with Eric and he too claims some younger women like what I call a "hard fuck." It's my opinion this is the result of a lack of experience on the part of a young, inexperienced girl. All of the responsibility has been taken from her. She is only responding to being desired by him. In my mind, that's a fairly low level of sexual sophistication unless it is acting out a fantasy previously discussed.

Dr. Betty