Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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Thank you for your website! It's great and very informative. My questions is regarding oral sex on my girlfriend. We have a great sexual relationship. Part of that is that I love giving her oral sex and enjoy all her juices. She also loves to give me oral sex to the point that I don't have to pull out to ejaculate. When I give her oral sex she says it's relaxing. Sometimes she has orgasmed but most of the time she says she prefers my penis. I'm not complaining and neither is she. I just want to know what else I can try that will cause her to orgasm most every time. I've tried several techniques and concentrated on her clitoris and even inserted a finger looking for her G-spot. She says it sometimes reminds her of a GYN visit. I've asked her directly what it is and she says there's nothing wrong. She and I are very open when we talk. She really prefers my penis as it's a sure way for her to orgasm. I know I am very lucky!! Anything you can share is greatly appreciated.

Thank you!

Dear DR,

I suggest you let go of the idea of wanting to "cause her to orgasm most every time." It's her orgasm not yours. And when she says she prefers your penis for her orgasm then believe her. I for one agree with her about having a lover poke around inside my vagina looking for some spot. It does feel like a GYN examine. So listen to what she says. Just relax and enjoy the wonderful sex life you're having right now.

Dr. Betty