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Can't Orgasm with Boyfriend...He Won't Warm Up to My Vibrator

Wed, 09/02/2009 - 13:37
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now. I can always bring myself to orgasm alone within minutes, but have never had an orgasm with him. He doesn't want to use my vibrator while we are together, even though I only want it for clitoral stimulation. I am the only woman he has had sex with, and I have never orgasmed with another boyfriend, so we don't really know what to do.

Please help, thankyou

Dear R,

Your boyfriend is an unenlightened sex novice who thinks he knows it all. I'd recycle him and keep the vibrator. Get my book "Orgasms for Two" where I deal in depth with this kind of situation. How you masturbate to orgasm is what you want to do during partnersex like put the vibrator on your clit while he's penetrating you.

Spend some time on the website reading the information that's there that supports you. Suggest he do the same. Especially since you're his first. Get this boy straightened out before he screws up another woman by expecting them to come from his almighty penis. Bummer!

Dr. Betty

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Boy friend won't warm up to the vibrator

Mon, 10/05/2009 - 00:45
Doug (not verified)

This guy needs to get over his insecurities and grow up. Please your lady any way she wants to be pleased. My wife and I have a hitachi magic wand and love it!

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