Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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Dr. Betty,

My husband and I have been married for 5 years now and we have a wonderful sex life. He has a very high need, like myself, and that's one reason he turned me on enough to marry him. He has recently changed jobs and has to be on the road a few days a week now. His need hasn't gone down at all since we've been married; in fact it's gone up since we've become comfortable with masturbating each other and oral sex thanks to your help. But he ejaculates less often now since he is away so regularly.

I have encouraged him to attend to himself and masturbate when he is away but he prefers my hands and mouth over any other. I would like to buy him something I heard about which should stimulate him and make him want to masturbate more often. It's called the fleshlight or fleshlight-lips. It appears to be very compact, convenient and realistic. I read that men masturbate more often after they get used to the device. He's willing to try it out but we don't want to waste our money or risk any problems like electrocution or infection. Can you give us any advice on these devices?

Barbara

Dear Barbara,

No need to worry about the Fleshlight causing your husband any problems. It's been in the market quite a while and from what I've heard, it's a very reliable toy. Getting infections or electrocuted from a toy is highly unlikely. If it turns out he doesn't like it, no big deal. So what if he goes through a few toys until he finds what he likes best. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. What value do you put on having frequent happy orgasms? Just remember, the first sex toy is using massage oil for manual masturbation like SLiquid Organics Natural Lube. He might also want to try prostate stimulation with the Aneros, also available in my Sex Shop. Happy O's,

Betty