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Dear Betty,

I was googling this topic and one site referred your page but i couldn't find exactly what i was looking for. I'm 32 and have been having vaginal and anal sex for quite a few years. I have been in a relationship with my bf for about 3 years. We are also into the swinging lifestyle. We always play together and we always use protection when we are with other people. We went to a party this past weekend with a few other couples. I happened to have my time of the month, so could only participate in anal sex. I probably had anal sex at least 5 or 6 times throughout the nite and all with protection. Normally, i only have once or twice when i do and i know how everything feels for the next day. This time though, i woke up last nite (2 nights later) with chills and nausea that lasted through to the morning. I also had more stuff coming out than usual when going to the bathroom. When i was up and moving around i also had some pain in my lower abdominal area, mostly on the left side. Do you think it's just because of the amount of anal sex i had or is it something i should go to the doctor for?

Dear S,

I'm happy to hear that you and your BF are playing safe. However, anal sex 5 or 6 times in one evening with different guys is a LOT of action! For me, anal requires so many things to be just right that I'd never consider doing anal with casual sex. That said, you probably just have a bout of the flu with diarrhea, but if the pain persists, you should definitely see your health care provider. Even if your partners used condoms, sneezing, coughing and dirty little hands can carry bugs we don't want. Were you kids using recreational drugs? If so, that also compromises our immune systems which work fine when we are in good health. Let me know what you discover you Anal Amazon.

Dr. Betty