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Dear Betty,

I am a male in my mid 40's and currently single. I enjoy masturbating and one day while looking at porn on the internet I saw a advertisment that said "are you Over Masturbating?" My question is there such a thing as "Over Masturbating"? What is the normal frequency for a male my age to masturbate. Currently, I masturbate everyday sometimes multiple times per day. I really enjoy masturbating and find it both relaxing and fun. I would hate to think I am doing harm to myself by "Over Masturbating". Can you help me out?

Dear DP,

Lets say it's far better to "Over Masturbate" than to "Over Eat" or "Over Medicate." As for "too much," who sets the standard is the question you should be asking. And by the way, why do people want to be "normal" when they could be extraordinary? My rule of thumb (or clit) would be that too much masturbation means I'm about to lose my job, can't pay my rent, forgetting to feed myself and the cat, etc., so you see you don't have to worry as long as it doesn't interfere with the daily necessities of life.

My only concern would be too many "quickies" might interfere with your come control when you're having sex with a partner. So to break up those "quickies" by throwing in a longer session that results in an orgasm that rocks you from head to toe. I mean take up to 30 minutes to an hour and be a great lover for yourself. Check out the Aneros and Sliquid Organics Natural Lube in my sex shop and see how much anal stimulation plus lube adds to your pleasures while you refine your JO skills.

Dr. Betty