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Am I Climaxing?

Wed, 06/17/2009 - 00:35
Submitted by Betty Dodson

I am 19 and have a healthy sex life but have never come during sex or even felt like it. However, I love my vibrator and get a really amazing feeling when im using her at certain points and i'm guessing that is what it feels like to Orgasm, but liquid never follows. Is this normal? and sometimes after about 50 minutes or so of using my vibrator I will release a LOT of liquid. (literally a bucketfull) Sorry if i grossed you out, but could I have some advice please on if this is natural lol?

Dear C,

The whole "female ejaculation" or "squirting" as I prefer to call it, is not part of every woman's sexual response pattern. So yes, you are normal. Those "amazing feelings" are most likely an orgasm. As for the "bucket fulls" it's probably not that much but feels like it. If you enjoy the sensation, just put down a couple of towels or a baby's mattress pad to protect your bed. When we pass a little blood during our periods, it can feel like a lot but in fact it's only a tablespoon or so.

After nearly an hour of vibrating, you could be releasing urine along with other fluids. Check out my latest essay on "The G-spot Revisited." Also tune into your pelvic floor muscle by reading the material that goes with my Barbell. Then relax, trust your body and enjoy yourself.

Dr. Betty

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