Afraid to Let My Boyfriend Go Down on Me

Mon, 09/07/2009 - 14:27
Submitted by Betty Dodson

Hey betty,

I've been wondering this question for a long time. I have been with my bf for 2 years and he's been wanting to give me oral but im scared for many reasons. he keeps telling me that its not a big deal but I want to get over my fears and make him happy so please help me. btw your my hero and amazing.

Dear B,

You've seen the Nike commercial that says, "Just do it!" That's my advise to you. Stop thinking about it and do it. Look at your vulva in a mirror that stands alone so you can use both hands to do a vulva massage. Then inhale the scent of your sweet pussy and taste it. Now get over yourself and make both you and your boyfriend happy.

Dr. Betty

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I Agree; Go For It

Miss Moonlight's picture
Sat, 09/19/2009 - 01:44

Penetration is nice but you are missing out on the most wonderful feeling in the world.  Lay back and enjoy!

Going Down

Thu, 01/28/2010 - 17:13
Anonymous (not verified)

As I get older and more experienced, I have found that many, if not most, women orgasm to oral stimulation of the clitoris, not from penile insertion.

Go for it. You have nothing to lose but the likelihood of a beautiful orgasm.

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