Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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I've been prepping my pussy for my very first dildo. It's coming in the mail. I've been doing exercises and using my hitachi everyday. I will get my very first, 4" dildo and actually use it at age 25. I'm excited! :)

I was really sad when I saw no place for fingers, my preference. And no matter your orientation, where is the place for tongue?

Why is this so heteronormative? What about the dykes?

As a happy senior, well above eighty, I can achieve a very satisfactory orgasim using the Magic Wand. Even when not fully erect, with its placement on the underside of my penis, just below the head, generally favoring either side, it dosen't take more than a minute or two to feel oh, so very, very good.

I do this after my loving partner has managed, almost without fail, to rack-up two beauties. I enjoy her responses almost as much as my own. I am an old hand at using vibration starting before high school with an older Hamilton Beach. Perhaps a slower or less intense vibrator would offer more time before the final rush. Sleep follows soon after each such beautifully shared loving.

Cock alone is missing. My partner is not into any toys in the bedroom. I was freaked at first more like (SSSHHHHIIITTT) but I have over come my freak out and now cope. More less I have clit happy positions. One is side ways. Me on my back him on his side. He can pump, I can slide and his leg can lay right were I need it when I want it to. Also I do the cowgirl, but I lay down all the way and my clit slides his public bone. It's even better when hes just trimmed the bush. I can sometimes get mine when hes on top but not to often. I just take over if I can't. It can take 5 mins some days, others it can take about 20-25 mins. It depends on how much porn I've seen during the week and how stressful my day was. I do have a hood piercing aka the door knocker. This is what works for me. I do use sex toys, I use them a lot. Those are only for me. I also have sex with my partner 2 or 3 times a week. Me and sex are in a relationship and I am very pleased with it and my partner even though he doesn't like toys.

PS I sell sex toys for a living and the discount. ;P

hands/fingers/fists?

I prefer my penetration fleshy but it's been almost three years since I had sex with a fleshy cock, and have moved away from dildos due to the non-flesh factor. It's not bad, it's just not what I prefer.

My lover is very adept with her digits, though. I'm enjoying penetration now in ways I NEVER did with a cock or a dildo.

My sex life is 1,3, and 4 so I don't know which to choose. It also is some other things not listed sometimes too!