Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross

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So... I saw your comment on my other post and I was like "...who the fuck mentioned having sex with a bagel? WHO IS PETER?!"... Then I remembered... "Family Guy" used to be my fucking comedy Bible. That, and I was extremely hung over (for the first time ever), so I was incredibly lost. Kudos on the quote, though. :D

This club sounds good.I hope there are lots of pictures and play by plays!

Peter: I'm gonna go microwave a bagel and have sex with it.

I suggested the name of the club to VirginMonoblogger a day after my 22nd birthday. It's days like that one that's hard to resist the pressure and be yourself. I admit I was feeling a bit pathetic before I read her post. It cheered me up.

I'm a virgin for various reasons. First of all I'm not very outgoing - not many opportunities to meet interesting people. I'm socially inept so the chance that I'll pursue the object of my interests is even smaller. And I have high standards. The person who ends up being my first must be sex positive and must respect my sexuality and my choices.

To find such a person I would have to make some effort. But to make such effort you need enough motivation to overcome the difficulties. And since I'm getting wonderful orgasms by myself... I don't know what would be so much better than them to reward me for the sheer torture that's called socializing.

Meanwhile I'm torturing myself by spending time with my kinky BFF and her girlfriend. And everyday I'm more tempted to post a personal add looking for a girl that will teach me how to eat pussy - that's what I would like to experience the most now.

Dammit, I love you, Carlin.

in case you didn't notice Betty's been teaching self sexuality and masturbation for 50 years ;)

"I see my body as an instrument, rather than an ornament." - Alanis Morissette

I appreciate this acknowledgement that one can be a sexually fullfilled being without having sex. While nearly everything espoused on this site resonates within me and I fully support your work, occasionally it seems you're suggesting that a person is sexually repressed if they decide to be celibate.

I decided to wait until marriage in my early teens (for personal reasons, not religious), and now, nearly 21 years old, I've been enjoying orgasms from masturbation for the past three years. Last summer I began following the Jewish commandment to avoid all physical contact with the opposite sex until my wedding, and it has been half a year since I've so much as tapped a man on the shoulder. Rather than feeling repressed, I feel profoundly liberated. It is important to recognize that there is a broad spectrum of healthy sexuality.