Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
My g-spot is sensitive but I won't have an orgasm unless I stimulate my clit. However, it seems that some women really do have g-spot orgasms. BITCHES (that's you kayten and firefly):
The mysterious G spot - supposedly a route to female sexual satisfaction - can be located with ultrasound, claim Italian scientists.
Some women say stimulating a certain part of the vagina triggers powerful orgasms, but medicine has not been able to pin down the exact location.
Researchers told New Scientist magazine they found an area of thicker tissue among the women reporting orgasms.
But specialists warned there could be other reasons for this difference.
For the first time, it is possible to determine by a simple, rapid and inexpensive method if a woman has got a G spot or not
The existence of the G spot has remained controversial since the 1980s, when the term was coined as a way to explain why some women were able to achieve orgasm through vaginal stimulation, while others were not.
Some specialists claim that the term has led to over-anxiety among women who cannot reach satisfaction this way, and their partners.
Love muscle
The latest research, published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, was carried out the Dr Emmanuele Jannini at the University of L'Aquila, and involved just 20 women.
Ultrasound was used to measure the size and shape of the tissue beyond the "front" wall of the vagina, often suggested as the location of the G spot.
In the nine women who reported being able to achieve vaginal orgasm, the tissues between the vagina and the urethra - which carries urine out of the body - were on average thicker than in the 11 women who could not reach orgasm this way.
It's telling people that there is a single, best way to have sex, which isn't the right thing to do.
Dr Jannini said: "For the first time, it is possible to determine by a simple, rapid and inexpensive method if a woman has got a G spot or not."
However, Dr Tim Spector, from St Thomas' Hospital in London, told New Scientist that the thicker tissue might actually be part of the clitoris - another extremely sensitive area.
Another suggestion was that, rather than being the cause of more orgasms, having these frequently might actually lead to better-developed musculature in this area.
Dr Petra Boynton, a sexual psychologist at University College London, said that an entire industry had grown up around the idea of a G spot, and it was unhelpful to label women unable to find theirs as "dysfunctional".
She said: "We're all different. Some women will have certain area within the vagina which will be very sensitive, and some won't - but they won't necessarily be in the area called the G spot.
"If a woman spends all her time worrying about whether she is normal, or has a G spot or not, she will focus on just one area, and ignore everything else.
"It's telling people that there is a single, best way to have sex, which isn't the right thing to do."
Sensational G Spot MOVE
My wife does not want me to touch her G Spot, and she is not at all sensitive there. However, this G Spot MOVE does work extremely well with our 2 sons & their wives.
http://www.redtube.com/15878
Both sons report similar results when using the above MOVE.
We must be happy with Clitty orgasms. This Clit Diagram opened up all new MOVES that my wife just LOVES.The whole neighborhood can hear her squeeling.
http://www.ed-sim.com/en/home#tabs-page-1
Using the above diagram, we start with 2 fingers on each side of the vagina, rapidly move fingers side to side, then up and down until body reactions begin. Do not touch the glans Clit yet. Then press palm on the pubic bone and rapidly move side to side, forward-back, Slowly move palm toward the clit, but do not touch glans. When her orgasm begins, cup hand over entire vulva rapidly moving side to side including glans clit.. WHY IT WORKS so well.... the entire subsurface clitoris is stimulated thus giving indirect stimulation to the glans clit. Then when orgasm starts, the entire subsurface AND the glans clit are stimulated. Any move that stimulates the entire sub-surface will work equally well saving the glans clit for last.
What are your favorite MOVES to stimulate Clit & G Spot?
Grizz
Well..I never knew I had a G spot until i met my current boyfriend. I remember the first G spot orgasm I had, at first it felt like I really had to pee, and I got freaked out (then reminded myself that I just went, so no need to worry) then i felt my whole body heat up, and I actually started sweating, keep in mind, I don't even sweat when it's hot out. I started shaking, it fely incredible, and lasted almost a full minute. By the time It was over, I actually started crying because it was just too intense.
Now I have them all the time, but I don't cry anymore..I think there needs to be an emotional connection, because when I had a G spot orgasm, I just felt so open, it's hard to find the right words. It's spiritual.
Gosh, I can't remember when I had my first. But I still haven't been able to make it happen in any other position but cowgirl. Although my current lover has really long fingers and was able to do it manually once which completely blew my mind. I did get a toy last year which was finally able to give me one - the first - and although I have to hump it in a really weird way, it's pretty much worth it.
My one multiple orgasm experience was g-spot related. I nearly passed out at the third; I hardly remember anything but the sound of my own blissful screams.
Oh man - I just bought a new g-spot stimulator that I am extremely disappointed with. It does not do a damn thing for me. I'm glad I didn't spend too much money on it.
As for multiple orgasms, I had never had those until recently. My new husband has magical hands!! :D
(sorry c-bitch! :D )
Ha ha, I spoke too soon ... moments after I posted that last message, he arrived for dinner and delights ... and I had an incredible g-spot orgasm on my back. My kegels contributed to it greatly but seriously, there is always something new with him and I have cum in more ways than I ever thought possible.
I don't know about this research... The area commonly associated with the G-spot location has been sensitive in all the women that I've been with, ever since I knew where to look, sometimes less, sometimes more, but always sensitive.
I don't think it's right to say women DON'T have a G-spot, but perhaps some women have less sensitive ones.
As far as multiple Orgasms go... In our last couple of months together, my ex started getting multiple orgasms almost every time, and quickly. Kayten, she was mostly in Cowgirl position as well, and she couldn't get enough, I think it's got to do with the partner's dick-shape (CB - Didn't you do a podcast on this?). She used to start crying after the second or third, then after the fourth or fifth, and towards the very end, she'd have six or seven and stop me, cause she said she couldn't take it any more. I have to say hitting her G-spot just right, was an amazing experience.
The other fun part is that after one or two orgasms, she was able to take me in a bit deeper, and we were able to enjoy some poses, which we were never able to enjoy beforehand.
Cookie, you said something interesting though too...
You said you felt like you were about to pee the first time your G-spot got stimulated. I wonder if it was like the sensation men get when penetrated from behind. There's a spot where, for me at least, it feel like there is pressure for peeing if it's pressed, even though I just had peed or something. It’s interesting.
Anyway...
A.