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i think male body hair is interesting am i gross for that?
I definiely prefer guys
I definiely prefer guys with very little body hair.. I find the hair irritates my skin when I am cuddling or fucking a guy with lots of body hair. Also, going down on a guy with a lot of hair can be unpleasant because of stray hairs that end up in ones mouth. Ass hair can be a problem too- I had a partner once request a rim job, and when I tried there was so much hair that I couldn't do it- I told him to shave his ass if he wanted me to try again... that has yet to happen.
Recently I have been hanging out with a guy who is a bit hairy, though he grooms enough that I didn not end up with hair in my mouth after going down on him, so that was nice. Though, while cuddling and having our legs wrapped together my legs definitely felt itchy.
I personally shave most of the hair from my vulva and the little that is between my ass cheeks. I like the way it looks better and bet my partners appreciate it... though I do leave a little "landing strip" most of the time.
body hair
i PREFER that men just have chest hair.. i've been with 1 guy who had a very hair chest, but buzzed it w/ an electric razor, so there was stubble, but not a lot of hair - that was sexy as hell, another guy i was with just had some hair on the top part of his chest, which was great, but he didn't trim his pubes which was not so great. i've been with 2 guys that were pretty hairy... one was EXCESSIVELY hairy and didn't care. He said he didn't care if his partner didn't like it, he wasn't going to inconvenience himself to get rid of any of it, his back was really hairy, and his entire stomach and chest. it was just gross. I felt it was very selfish that he expected me to shave my pussy but he wouldn't get his back waxed... he also refused to give oral sex, but demanded it from me... needless to say, he was history.
another of the hairy guys i dated wasn't so bad b/c while he did have hair on his chest, stomach and back, it wasn't THICK and it wasn't all coarse and curly... and he was WILLING to wax it off. that's what the difference was. he wanted to do what would turn ME on...
i personally don't like when men shave all their pubic hair off, shaving the balls is EXTREMELY sexy, and making sure there's no hair on the SHAFT of the penis - i haven't seen that one mentioned yet... but boy is THAT gross. i find shaved men to look so feminine for some reason. it's not a turn on... actually, it's kinda a turn off. i think it should just be kept very short. i think if women are expected to groom, then so should men... you should do not only what you like, but what turns on/pleases your partner.
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what kind of interesting?
Yeah it's gross. I make every man that I date get rid of all of the hair on his body (aside top of head) I think that hair is the most grosso thing that a man can have.
I think anything besides back hair is quite masculine. I love to see muscular legs with hair (sorry ladies on the men only!!!)
My finace let my sister's and me wax him legs just for fun. I felt so bad for him, but it was really funny.
I like the hair, no problem with it at all. He is the one that doesn't like it, he thinks that body hair makes him gross. No woman has ever told him that either, it's actually his thinking. But then again, he did grow up in a house full of girls...
(Wow! Wanna go ride bikes)-ADD
sorry.
I think that body (normal, i.e. not back) hair is sexy. There we go, the real topic!
I like a man with hair...not wooly booling hair either.
Do to the temps where we live my man on occasion trims his pubis and chest.
I am not into back hair...thats gross....
I am not sure how I feel about no hair on a guy...as i have never been with a guy that is hairless.
One of my ex boyfriends was nataurally hairless on his chect & back & it was super sexy but my hubby has a nice patch on his chest & none on his back & I find that very sexy also...I agree though, I don't like the wooly hair & the hair on the back is kinda gross.
i'm not all about the gorilla type hair...but my boyfriend has a nice patch of hair down his treasure trail and i find it sexy....he doesn't have hair on his back which is good....i guess my opinion is..hair in the right places is sexy....and i think guys should have hair on their legs....that's the image of a man....i've seen swimmers that have shaved their legs which that i can see..but a regular guy should have hair on his legs....
I don't like hairy guys. The happy trail is sexy and as long as it is atleast trimmed down there, it's good.
Phermones serve a purpose
Ladies, ladies, ladies.
I see hairless men as the equivalent of juvenile-looking porn girls. They look like 12 year old boys.
Consider why men are covered in hair to begin with. All that fuzzy stuff contains phermones that'll do their job if you actually sniff them out.
Chewbacca is my dream guy.
Hairy
I, very greatfully, do not have unseemly back hair, and really the only hair on my chest is a few strays around my nipples. However, I am extremely hairy south of the border.
Is that okay with you girls or should I be better about trimming?
Also, if I did choose to shave my sack how would I? I've tried before and it was not pleasant.
Men shaving......
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I have been shaving my cock and testicals for two years now.....I first saw this in "porn" videos.. all most all the male stars shave their cock and balls..
It really feels good. My wife likes it......so.......I probably will continue.
I've been doing it for about 6 years. Takes an extra two minutes while I'm in the shower, nothing to it. A lot of women laugh at the mention of it but I've never been with one that didn't end up loving it.
Yes, I've gotten very used to it in my men; can't imagine being with a man who didn't shave or at least trim VERY closely and VERY regularly.
I am still surprised when some male porn actors do not shave, but I guess most porn is marketed toward hetero men who could care less about a hairy nutsack.
I first started doing it in college, if nothing else it gave some of the girls on campus something to talk about.
What really irritates me is when some women will shave their cooch but forget their ass, as if they did not know they have a hairy asshole.........
I got you ALL beat....I'm 43 and I've been doing it since I was 18. I had a playmate who shaved herself for me......so I did out of solidarity. And LOVED it. No one else I've ever been with has ever seen me WITH hair on my balls.
I keep a little tuft in front (apparently lovers are fascinated with strawberry pubic hair) but everything else from the shaft back to the taint is all gone.
hmmm...thinking perhaps that last bit was oversharing
over shared? here? nothing is over shared here, we bare it all.
Funny you should use that phrasing just after a discussion on shaving.
I've only ever shaved twice, cock, balls, and all, and honestly I thought it just looked kinda silly. It did feel kind of cool, though (which is why it was twice, rather than once).
I did it mostly because a girl suggested it one day, and after careful deliberation (for all of a minute and a half) I decided "Fuck it, why not?"
I actually may do it again sometime soon just to see my gf's reaction.
Hmm... fairly sexually repressed japanese girl who still can't call a BJ, or any genitals by name... This should be interesting.
I shave my pubes but I keep a little fuzz at the top of my cock. I don't have much body hair except for my legs which my lady thinks is fine. I want to shave her pubes so that maybe a fun time... I just need to find the best way so she is comfortable with it later...
Any ideas?
Thanks
my man won't let me shave him, but I do trim him very closely at least once a month, that he enjoys.
in the winter i keep myself trimmed, but in the summer, it all comes off, so I'm looking forward to hearing about this pussyshaver that kayten found!
passioncam, i would suggest you trimming her one time, very close let her get use to it, she'll want it all off in no time, and since it's best to trim first, before shaving the first time, she'll be ready.
Definitely. If you don't, it clogs up the razor in a hurry. (Unless you're brave enough to try a straight razor.)
I took a Women's Studies course last semester, and my teacher brought up a good point about men who want women to shave their pubic area.
Why shave it off when pubic hair is natural? And who naturally has no pubic hair? Little girls, that's who! Why would men want us to look like little girls? Why would we want to look like little girls?
Well I sure don't.
Plus, I tried shaving it once or twice, and it was an unpleasant experience.
I use my man's buzzer just to keep things trim - I hate when you get that bush thing pushing out your bikini bottom.
I agree about the little girl thing. The whole completely shaved pussy thing turns me off. However, I do share the lips of my pussy because it's better for sex.
Your hair is natural protection from STDs. It keeps fluids off you. So shaving is for relationships. If you want to be well lubed for sex feels better and there's no hair pulling, then you want to shave your lips.
I just got several bikini shavers from Adam & Eve to review. I'm going to try them all and get back to you.
I'm not so sure about the whole "little girl, shaved" association. I love men who are shaven, but because I find them sexy and I HATE hair in my mouth.
The only thing that makes me gag is hair...during oral sex, eating or brushing my teeth. Is there anything more gross then going down on someone only to have a pubic hair wrapped around a tooth.....ugh.
I also find my man is much more into oral sex when he doesn't have to navigate through pubic hair.
My point exactly!
It has nothing to do with "little girl" ....Ugh I don't even want to think that way... creepy ...
I want to eat my lady without getting Pube floss in my mouth. I like pubes but not a forest to navigate to get to her love button..
Strips, little triangles, "v" close cut....ya baby...
I think my nice hot wet tongue on a smooth pussy is going to rock her world...I hope......
She likes it when I shave...A different feeling...Smooth... Fun
I will keep you posted on the out "cum"....
Happy orgasms to all
Yeah, yeah, I trim my hairs when I feel like it. But like I've said before, I'm not sexually active, so I don't need to worry about it right now. I don't use special shavers, though, I just use scissors. Is there something wrong with that?
I agree with trimming, it makes sense to me. It's just that I know that our culture is obsessed with youth in women. You know how they say men age better than women? Well, I don't know if they get less wrinkles or what, but my personal opinion is that it's not that they necessarily age better, it's just that youth is more valued in women, so we get judged more harshly. Men, meanwhile, become more "dignified," or whatever. Does that make sense? That's just a theory of mine, I don't know if it's original or not.
Personally, I think mine looks better when I have some hair.
Oh, and I don't really have enough experience to have an opinion on men shaving their pubic hair. Maybe I'm just immature, but I don't think I want to give oral. It still seems gross to me...
I worked with a woman who felt the same way. She had a husband and two or three kids, so I think it's safe to say she was 'mature'. Funny thing is, she thinks sucking cock is disgusting, but likes when her husband gives her some oral attention. (She even insists on it, apparently.)
Your opinion may change one day, or it may not. All I can say is "don't knock it till you try it" and recommend that you try it a couple times, just in case you have a bad partner for it the first time. (Some girls I loved giving oral to, and others not so much, for various reasons.)
I don't think the shaving has to do with looking young either. It's not about appearance for me, because I actually like the look of a healthy bush better than I like the shaved look. I just find it feels a lot better during sex. Slicker. Smoother. I dunno, just better, period. Not having pubes tickling my nostrils when I eat a girl out is a bonus too.
I would probably prefer a girl who just shaved around the pussy itself and left the little pubic triangle alone, but I haven't met a girl yet that did that, so I dunno.