Virginity Pledges a Bust

Mon, 05/08/2006 - 16:23
Submitted by Carlin Ross

ha ha ha haaa ha. It seems that over 1/2 of kids taking virginity pledges break them within the first year according to a new harvard study. Finally, Concerned Women for America can have a little dose of reality.

It's really unfair to think that someone is going to wait until marriage to experiment with their sexuality. It may have been achievable when you were married at 14 and dead by 18 but today - come on. People don't get married until their 30's so how can you expect anyone to keep wraps on their libido that long. They need to accept the fact that their children are going to fuck at some point in their adolescence, get over their abstinence slate, and teach these kids about sex.

Here's the full article:
Virginity pledges, in which young people vow to abstain from sex until marriage, have little staying power among those who take them, a Harvard study has found.

More than half of the adolescents who make the signed public promises give up on their pledges within a year, according to the study released last week.

The findings have raised the ire of Concerned Women for America, a prominent conservative organization that advocates adolescent sexual abstinence.

"The Harvard report is wrong," said Janice Crouse, a fellow at a Concerned Women for America think tank.

"This study is in direct contradiction with trends we have been seeing in recent years," Crouse said. "Those who make virginity pledges have shown greater resolve to save sex for marriage."

Virginity pledges were introduced in the early 1990s as part of the Christian Sex Education Project. Their adult champions hail the promises, which rest solely on the individual's word, as being a major step toward reducing teen pregnancy and raising moral values.

By some estimates, at least 2.5 million adolescents around the world have publicly vowed to postpone sex until marriage. They include virgins, as well as those who have had sexual experiences but who swear to refrain from further activity.

Many wear rings or other jewelry to symbolize their pledge.

For the Harvard report, researcher Janet Rosenbaum analyzed data from the National Longitudinal Study of Adolescent Health, a survey conducted by the National Institute of Child Health and Human Development. It is the only government-sponsored study that asks about virginity pledges.

The 14,000 survey subjects were interviewed in 1995 and reinterviewed in 1996 and 2001. They ranged in age from 12 to 18 and came from across the country.

Rosenbaum found that 52% of those who said they had signed virginity pledges had had sex within a year. And of those who had sex after telling the first interviewers they had taken the pledge, 73% denied in the second interview having made the pledge.

"This may indicate that they are not that closely affiliated with the pledge," Rosenbaum said.

The adolescents also were unreliable in reporting their sexual experiences, Rosenbaum said. More than a quarter of nonvirgins in the first interview who later took a virginity pledge said in the next interview that they had never had sex.

"That puts a lot of error in these studies," Rosenbaum said. Virginity pledgers, she concluded, "are more likely to give bad information — unreliable data — about their sexual history."

Medical testing is a more reliable gauge of adolescent sexual activity than their own reporting, Rosenbaum said.

Mon, 05/08/2006 - 20:26

perhaps we should start a pledge here on cherrybomb, one that is more realistic as well as life saving, such as a pledge to wear condoms and practice safe sex at all times, and not judge people for responding to natural instincts.

love it

Tue, 05/09/2006 - 14:52

I love that idea: a CB pledge. We should all decide on the major tenets.

Safe sex is the right start but I think we should also stand for sex without guilt, taking charge in the bedroom, and never being afraid to communicate your needs....oh, and lots of masturbation! Anything else????

Wed, 05/10/2006 - 02:41

I got one. How about including the various types of sex? Pledge to try to get at least one of everything at some point. Normally I break it down into 3 main categories. Fucking, sex, and making love. The last is fairly obvious. The first is by and large a passion thing. The kind of primal, feel it in your gut NEED for sex.
The middle one, sex, has more variety. Like fun sex. I don't mean anything kinky, just... fun. I've only had fun sex a couple of times in my life. We didn't love each other, we didn't even like each other a lot, and there wasn't any passion in it. We were just friends in need of orgasms and in a position (several, actually) to help each other out. We laughed, we joked, we did silly stuff, and in the end we fucked each other raw because we were having so much fun. (When even the guy is feeling raw the next day, you KNOW it was a good night.)
And of course there's quickie sex, camera sex, in front of a window with the blinds open sex (also referred to as "showing-off-that-you-have-sex sex).

I love it!

Wed, 05/10/2006 - 18:00

I love it, cuntlicker. And we could add: masturbate with a vibrator, watch a high-quality adult film, have sex in public...i could go on and on.

I'm going to put together a list, post it, and get comments.

Thu, 05/11/2006 - 01:57

lol I'll have to bow out on the masturbate with a vibrator part. :P

Thu, 06/01/2006 - 05:14

Don't lie cunt, we all know you have a variety of butt plugs in the sock drawer =P

All members of Cherry Bomb should work on becoming members of the mile high club.

Thu, 06/01/2006 - 07:57

Nah, never was into any ass stuff. Not hers and especially not mine. :P