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Just doing a small survey for a project I am working on.
Please State:
Your current age:
Your age you lost your virginity:
Girls you've slept with: X Number
Guys you've slept with: X Number
Replacing "X Number" with the number of people you have slept with either girl or guy. Just doing a small project.
Thanks,
.d
partners
Age: 42
los virginity:16
Girls 50+ hard to remember!
Guys 2 easier to remember:)
partners
Your current age: 29
Your age you lost your virginity: 14
Girls you've slept with: 16 (from 22-29 y/o; 2 monogamous LTRs, the rest within the last 18 months)
Guys you've slept with: 12 (from 14-22 y/o; i came out as a lesbian at 22)
Keep in mind...I'm a swinger!
Your Current Age: 29
Your age you lost your virginity: 17
Girls you slept with: approx 10
Guys you've slept with: approx 130...
By sleep I'm assuming you mean "coitus" or "had sex" with. Actually "sleeping" with would be significantly less...
Female Older When It Said Bye
Lost it 7 yrs ago at 30 yrs. old.
Your current age: 37
Your age you lost your virginity: 30
Girls you've slept with: 1 Number
Guys you've slept with: 12 Number
Your current age: 59 Your age
Your current age: 59
Your age you lost your virginity: 15
Girls you've slept with: 81 Number
Guys you've slept with: 4 Number
Re: survey project
Current age: 26, Female
Age I lost my virginity: 22 (girl) or 24(guy)
Girls slept with: 4
Guys slept with: 4
WD: # partners survey
[= 14px; line-height: 22px]Your current age: 61, Male [/]
Your age you lost your virginity:16
Girls you've slept with: 24
Guys you've slept with: zero
when I lost it...
I'm a man and lost my virginity at 18 in college and has slept with
9 women, 2 which were one night stands.
0 men (but I did get receive oral from a man)
I've been married 3 times (divorced once and widowed once).
dave
How many partners have you had sex with?
Age 13 lost my virginity.Girl,young women,Lady's,women 32 yrs older then me.224.I was born 61.And have taken the good and the bad from each with me.Thks Dave
survey
age -52
lost virginity at age - 20
girls slept with - 0
boys slept with - 22
sex stats
Age: 37
Age I lost my virginity: 15
Female sex partners: 10+
Male sex partners: 150+
not including my errr working days
age 20
loss of virginity 13
women 15 although of those 7 were in one night in a group adventure.
men 30 give or take 2 or 3
Your current age: 17 Your age
Your current age: 17
Your age you lost your virginity: Just 15
Girls you've slept with: 4
Guys you've slept with: 0 ............ so far
Current age 31 female Age I
Current age 31 female
Age I lost my virginity 17
Girls I have slept with 4
Boys I have slept with 35
My lost virginity
I am 58
I lost my virginity on my wedding night at the age of 22
I have only ever had sex with my wife.
I was tempted once but the lady said no unless I left my wife and I could never do that.
Age: 34Age I lost
Age: 34
Age I lost my virginity: 18
Girls i've slept with: 8
my virginity
Age: 47
When I lost my virginity: 22
Girls I've had sex with: Intercourse 2; Others to Second/third base: 3
Your current age: 34 Your
Your current age: 34
Your age you lost your virginity: 18
Girls you've slept with: 6
I feel like I've taken this survery before...
But I'm a sucker when it comes to surveys about my sexuality, and I don't see a comment from me in here.
Current age: 28
Age lost virginity: 18
How many girls? 4
How many guys? 22
I'm sure your survey is
I'm sure your survey is over, but I ended up looking through others' responses so I thought someone else might as well.
Current age: 19
Age lost virginity: 17
How many girls? 0
How many guys? 6
45 18 0 over 10
45
18
0
over 10
Current Age: 19 Age lost
Current Age: 19
Age lost virginity:14
Female's I have had sex with: 3
Males I have had sex with: 23
Share More?
Any women who would like to share a little more information, do take a look at my Female Survey in the general section. x
http://dodsonandross.com/forum/topics/female-survey
Statistics
Your current age: 19
Your age you lost your virginity: 15
Girls you've slept with: 6-10 Number
Guys you've slept with: 23-30 Number
Your current age: 47 Your
Your current age: 47
Your age you lost your virginity: 19
Girls you've slept with: 6-8
Guys you've slept with: 3
Age I entered into a monogamous relationship w/ a guy: 28
Age: 47 Lost virginity at
Age: 47
Lost virginity at 21
Females I 've had sex with: Just coming up to 80.
Guys I've had sex with: say 5ish
I would suggest the questions should be have had sex with. You shouldn't use euphemisms in scientific studies.
Some background: Not many in my twenties, a few more in my early thirties and a lot more in my late thirties and early forties, back to being monogamous for the last 4 years. I would say about an average of 10 per year in my late thirties and early forties, which is actually less than one a month and when you think about it, that isn't really having sex that much.
Cheers,
GJK
My turn
Current age: 50
Age lost virginity: 17
How many girls? 0
How many guys? 10
Here Goes!
Your current age: 39
Your age you lost your virginity; 15th birthday (and please don't knock me for that, it was my choice and so long ago, but no regrets).
Girls you've slept with: 2
Guys you've slept with: Around 35 (I was never told I had to count!)
Current age: 25Age lost
Current age: 25
Age lost virginity: 24
How many girls? 1
How many guys? 0
Your current age: 42 Your
Your current age: 42
Your age you lost your virginity: 19
Girls you've slept with: 5
Guys you've slept with: 0
I'm male, and have always found sex in committed relationships the best. While I did get married early (22) I've since been divorced, remarried, and enjoy a fantastic, close, intimate relationship with my wife. We both get what we want and need out of the relationship. Wow. Has it been 6 years already?
Even so, I've masturbated as long as I can remember, and that hasn't changed, no matter my relationship status.
One of the things that turns my wife on, is the fact that I love myself, and that shines through the relationship. It has helped her become much more confident in what she wants also.
How many partners have you had sex with?
DT,
Current age: 62
Age you lost your virginity: 12
Girls slept with: 135+ Number
Guys slept with: 3 Number
I have a hard time remembering them all but they were all good, with some being better than others. Some I remember much more than others.
I spent many days overseas with the Navy and played alot during my High School and College Days and many days since and still doing what I can to help.
How many partners have you had sex with
Age: 49
Lost virginity: 16 years of age
Female partners: 0
Male partners: 50+
DT,
This is kind of a personal question you are asking people to answer.
Perhaps you could enlighten us on what kind of project this is you are doing, and people might be a bit more open to answering you.
A.
Just doing it for a class I'm taking. Getting numbers on people to see what an average of partners could be from a certain age group and what they have in common.
This still isn't clear to me.
I purposely don't keep count because I think numbers are unimportant. I'm 37 now and lost my virginity at 13, but didn't really become sexually active until 17 when I went to college. I was married and monogamous for 12 years between the ages of 22 and 34 so if you're talking about 'averages' by age group it certainly wouldn't apply to me.
Another problem is that the phrase "had sex with" is amorphous. I have had intercourse with people I don't consider that I've been intimate with, and I've been intimate with people I haven't had intercourse with. I seriously wouldn't know how to define that term and have probably forgotten some experiences just because they were so, well, forgettable.
Kayten... I think this is certainly something you and I can both agree on...
Hahaha... love the way you said this...
DT, I agree with Kayten though, on another matter as well.
Do you want just plain intercourse numbers? Cause I don't keep count of those either. I've been sexually active for the past 10 years, and i'm 27, but I never intended to keep a count, and have not. I'm not sure many people here on this forum have. I like to think we are a bit more open about these things than the general populace, and so, see an acounting of numbers as a mundane act.
I know how many relationships I've been in, but again, that's also something that's subject to definition. Some people would call my own count high, as far as relationships go, cause I might include things that others wouldn't have seen as one. Whereas others might call my count low for similar reasons.
Keep your questions simple, that's what I always found works.
Do you want to know about Sexual Intercourse, or Intimate encounters, or perhaps relationships.
Well, I think he did keep his questions rather simple... I mean, unless you want to get into a Clinton-esque argument over the definition of "sleep with."
I'll be 25 in a few months.
I don't really keep track, but I can tell you that my 'number' is in the low thirties. Including 4 women that I remember. I lost my virginity at 15.
Current age: 28
Age lost virginity: 16
How many girls? 0 (zero)
How many guys? I really haven't kept track but I think it's around 10 or so.
Well, that's sort of my point. The question seems to make intercourse, no matter the circumstances, more important than true intimacy, or "partnership". I have had far more sexual partners than people I have had intercourse with. And yet in this question you would probably have to count even instances of rape if a penis was inserted into a vagina (I apologize if that's overly dramatic in order to make my point).
I'm sure I could have answered this question at 22 as I had been juvenile enough in high school and college to keep a "little black book" of boys I had kissed and there was a special code if we had had sex. But when I married I truly thought I would never be having sex with anyone besides my husband ever again and my memory of my sexual youth is pretty much wiped clean except a few exceedingly memorable experiences which stand out like scenes from favorite movies.
Since then ... again, I could name a half dozen men who were sexual partners over a longer term, whom I really came to know well and as such were really able to pleasure me. And a few one-night-stands. But there are others I know I 'hooked up with' and yet I couldn't remember how. I might say, "yeah, I had sex with him" but then he'd point out that he only went down on me and I'd have to remember that's right, I never even saw him naked, I only remember a slice of the moment and afterglow and have to assume what did or didn't happen. Similarly, I'm sure there's at least one experience where I'd nearly swear I didn't have sex but if he said something like, "you don't remember I pulled you into the bathroom at that party for a quickie when we were both drinking and horny?" and because it was such a minor and sexually unsatisfying scene in an otherwise long friendship/acquaintance it would have completely slipped my mind. Frankly, I'm better remembering things like, "are there things in our past that his current girlfriend would be better off not knowing if we still hang out as friends?" without remembering specifically what those things are.
Still, as far as numbers, I'm sure it's far fewer than 100 men, but likely more than 30. The four women I all remember very, very well.
You're making this far more complicated than it needs to be, K.
People you've slept with = Sexual partners. Handjobs/finger-fucking, BJs/Carpetmunching, full on intercourse, it all counts. At least in the context of classifying someone as a sexual partner. Otherwise lesbians would all be virgins, right? :P I wouldn't count a rapist as a sexual partner, because they arent a partner in any sense of the word. They're predators, assaulting you and taking what they want.
As for my contribution:
Currently 26
Lost virginity at 16
Male 'partners': None
Female 'partners': 10 or 12. (I don't keep count either, and when I go over it all in my head, I get 10, but I feel like I'm forgetting someone, lol.)
Age: 34
Lost virginity: 16
Female Partners: 3
Male Partners: about 35
age:35
lost virginity: 16
women: 0
men: lost count but its well over 100.......... I have been a naughty girl!!!!:eek:
Age: 20
Age lost virginity: 14
Female Partners: 5
Male partners: 20ish?
I admit that I'm still lost. I really have NO IDEA where you draw a line with regard to when someone becomes a sexual partner as I would totally disagree with manual stimulation of the genitals being anything close to sex. If you're counting every open-mouthed kiss or consensual grope as becoming a sexual partner, then I'm sure my numbers are closer to 200. Good god, I've had orgasms from fully-clothed grinding while straddling my lover and yet none from being penetrated or stimulated - but they're both considered sex? And intimacy?
Seriously, I would have considered this question to mean an activity from which pregnancy would result (or in the case of lesbians a simulation of such activity). If you're saying that by masturbating someone that I've already had sex with him and oral sex or intercourse doesn't make a difference on any level, I have to argue that as being ridiculous to my point of view. I would never ever equate to having held an ejaculating penis to having had sex with someone.
And yes, I think that the definition of a female virgin is an unbroken hymen by the act of another, so if lesbians are only having oral sex without finger or toy penetration, I would view them as virgins, although I don't even know why it's that important what *I* think. What's important is what they think of their level of intimacy. Which brings me back to the point as to why I think the question is kind of silly. A prostitute could have had sex with a hundred customers but never true intimacy with anyone; another person could have had intimacy with a hundred people but never actually have penetrative sex with any of them ... and both could answer the question as either 100 or none. What is being measured and why? IN THIS DAY AND AGE, WHY ARE WE BOTHERING TO ASK OR ANSWER THESE QUESTIONS??
Well, I agree with you Kayten on a lot of your points. But for this survey, the purpose of which I'm still kind of curious myself about, I think DT is looking for sexual intercourse taken down to the simplest levels.
Any time you've had penetrative, oral, or anal sex, as well as manual stimulation.
That being the case, my answers are as follows:
Age: 27
Age lost virginity: 17
Male Partners: 0
Female Partners: in the range of 50-70, I'm Not sure anymore. I never kept a count.
"I did not have sexual relations with that woman." Nobody bought it back then, either. Sure he didn't fuck her, but a BJ still counts.
And if a handjob doesn't count as 'sexual relations' then prostitutes everywhere should be able to do that much without getting arrested. After all, it's not really sex, right?
I think you're just splitting hairs here, but I don't understand why.
Sure, I can be intimate with someone without having sex/doing anything sexual. But that's not what the question was about. It's about sexual relations, nothing more, nothing less.
How many partners. answer Non
How many partners. answer Non
None because i've got aspergers sydrome and am now 46yrs old.
You can boast the number of notches on your bedpost. I have never had sex and feel thoroughly ashamed and discusted with myself. None of you could understand the difficulties i've gone through.