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Wed, 03/03/2004 - 20:24
Submitted by Kojak Kitty

Have you ever felt and instant connection with someone that you have just meet and it was so strong that it scared you, I am not talking just sexual attraction I am talking beyond that just a strong electrical charge where you just want to absorb each other :?:

I felt this type of connection once, I was seriously involved with someone and so was this person. We both felt the connection and tried to ignore it but it eventually we started emailing and finding time to talk freely on the phone. We both wanted to pursue things to an intimate level but we both were very nervous and afraid of the out come. This uncontrolable feelings for this person were nearly overwhelming. Just being in the same room together was hard. A friend whom was present at our first meeting even mentioned to me sort of in a shocked way "WHAT WAS THAT" even she sensed the undercurrents between myself and this stranger. I am not sure if I regret it now or not that we never did hook up and see where things would have lead us. This person haunts my dreams from time to time and I still feel myself drawn to them though I do my best to avoid. My girlfriend thinks I should just forget about my partner and go with my gutt and hook up with this stranger.

Does anyone have any suggestions...... :?

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My Confession Who I Am Attracted To

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Mon, 09/28/2009 - 22:12
nanook

I am attracted to someone in my Karate Class. His name is Harvey, and yes the same name/person that I write about in the Fantasy Fiction Stories (The Sempai and The Student). He is so nice and friendly. I look up to him in Class. He helps me in Class with a move or technique, watches over me like a mother hen when I do some Sparring (as I am new at that), answers my many questions, etc. I really like him a lot.

Sadly he is married with two kids. Rats. I have a HUGE CRUSH on him, and go all weird when I see him.And yes I do fantasy about him, etc.

Just a note here; have a

Sat, 04/04/2009 - 17:19
Anonymous User (not verified)

Just a note here; have a past life connection with someone doesn't necessarily mean they are your soulmate. It may be that you have known each other as friends or even been arch enemies. Yes you might share similar memories, but the best way to find out if some one is a soul mate is to pray, ask your angels and spirit guides for information. You may encounter a soul mate, not to provide you with and easy life but because you both have something to learn from one another. I once thought one person was a soulmate, but my spirit guide countered this with other information.

Wed, 03/03/2004 - 20:53
TexanBelle

what exactly happened between you and this other person? why didn't y'all continue talking if there was such a connection?

At this point I might suggest just try re-contacting this person, as a friend. I don't think just dropping your S.O. to go find this guy is too wise, a lot could have happened since you last spoke to him, if you two haven't been in contact since. He might not be interested anymore, or not interested in a relationship, or he might have even found someone like you did. Don't do anything rash, it may not work out like you want it to. :)

Thu, 03/04/2004 - 01:06
Twolove

Well you never know, maybe the guy thinks of you all the time and wishes things had progressed too.

Thu, 03/04/2004 - 03:50
Anonymous (not verified)

Well I agree with TexanBelle, though I guess I would be curious to know if being friends would even work seeing how there was that connection and obiviously you both talked and thought long and hard about taking it to that next level and ended up backing it up. Maybe you would be better off leaving well enough alone.

Thu, 03/04/2004 - 15:39
test

You can't deny nature. There aren't going to be many times in your life when you feel that charge when you're around someone. It's only happened twice in my life. I would contact him. This could be your soulmate or one of the best memories of your life. Just stay in control and be true to yourself.

Fri, 03/05/2004 - 15:54
Anonymous (not verified)

If any of you believe in past life, this isn't so hard to believe. Of course you and that person have a connection, because you knew them in your past life. When we encounter people, places or even things that are new to us in the present, but seem so familiar, it is because our soul recognizes that love, but our current state doesn't. That person will continue to haunt you, and don't worry if you don't catch them in this lifetime, there is always the next. it will work itself out. Don't start tripping, and getting breaking up with your current love, take your time and it will happen for you. All the best.

Sun, 03/07/2004 - 04:22
Anonymous (not verified)

I know exactly how you feel. I am going thru the same thing. I met this guy at my old job while I was with my current boyfriend. There was that instant connection- subtle but very deep- on an intellectual level also sensual and sexual. We became friends but he had a girlfriend and I was devoted to my boyfriend. However my boyfriend and I briefly broke up and I was willing to try to start something but the guy was still with his gfriend. I felt bad so I never fully pursued it and me and my bfriend got back together. I quit the job and we fell out of touch,that was about 3-4 years ago. But a couple of years ago I started thinking about him a lot so I looked him up on the internet and we e-mail back and forth and there is some mild flirtation,he wants to meet to hang out. I don't know what is going to happen but I know I will always think what if.. but my advice is to at least try to look the person up and pursue a cautious friendship. Like the previous person said the guy may have changed or you may find you don't feel the same. Whatever you decide,good luck!

Mon, 04/05/2004 - 15:53
lamanda_2003

i would really look this stranger up. like the guest said i was is your postion once and it had been 7 years and when i seen him again for the first time it was like nothing changed. i can feel the love he feels for me in everything we do. Just being in the same room we both get excited and know what the other is thinking. if i feel bad he knows with out me telling him. I just went with it and i am so happy. i couldn't even imagine not having him.. we are together as much as possible we have a 10 month old son and i am happy i ran into him again or i would not have these fellings
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