Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
Love your website, Dr Betty!
I am a 38 year old New York born Jewish girl who had to move to the other side of the world to Australia to meet the "goy" of my dreams! We have been together nearly seven years now, but before that, I spent years being married to an Englishman who, despite being a lovely man, a good provider and a good father, was, like many of the English, very sexually repressed. I don't think he even looked at my pussy in all those years - he certainly didn't pay much attention to it. I thought there was something wrong with me because our lovemaking always left me horny and dissatisfied.
Betty,
Enclosed are three photos for your genital art gallery. I admire your website and both books!
I love my vulva. Her name is Precious. I think she has a nice shape and the labia remain tightly closed. I like to wake up in the morning and slowly cover her in massage oil. Then I'll masturbate with a vibrator until she comes. I masturbate four or five times a week.
I also like to have my boyfriend lick her slowly and gently with his tongue. He's improved a lot and always brings her to a climax. Light, gentle circles with the tip of his tongue around my clitoris makes me come! My clit will start out the size of a pencil eraser and end up the size of a small grape, red and full of excitement.
Betty
I love the idea of celebrating genitalia. I discovered mine when I was about 8 and was masturbating avidly by the age of 10. So with 28 years of daily practice, I'd have to say I'm getting pretty good at it. I don't give my cunt a name...and I do so much prefer the good old anglo-saxon word than the wishy washy pussy!
I got into piercing about 10 years ago...and can wholeheartedly recommend it to anyone. Anything that makes you more aware of your clit and labia has to be a good thing. Anyway, here is my photo....
Best wishes
Jane
She lives under her hood and she's just a wee little thing, but she sure knows how to make me sit up and pay attention. She's cute too, kind of a two-tone model, with pink all around and burgundy inner lips.
Dear Betty,
I have spent hours looking at your site and all the wonderful photos of genitals. I think every single picture aroused me. I particularly enjoyed looking at the penises and trying to imagine what they looked like as they were being rubbed and tugged upon during masturbation. I myself masturbated several times earlier today just looking at them. The pubic hair, the erections, and the head of the penis are particularly appealing to me. And seeing a man's hand wrapped tightly around the shaft of his penis excites me all the more.
Dear Dr. Betty,
I was never popular with boys in high school because my family was very religious like most people in my part of Texas. In Sunday School we were bombarded with messages about sex being a sin. In my high school they were teaching Governor Bush's sexual abstinence program. I always wanted to be good girl so I turned up my nose at all those boys who constantly wanted "to show me a good time."
I paid a price for wanting to be good. I would toss and turn in a bed at night, always wanting to touch my body, especially my pussy. But I knew that masturbation was bad.
Hi Dr. Betty!
I decided to come out once I saw the letter you received from Xie from Taiwan. I am a Chinese-American born in the U.S. Both parents came from an area near Nanking but they married in the U.S. and I am one of three children, now living in San Francisco.
Betty, Dear:
Glad to see that you encourage ordinary women to be as bold as men about their sexuality. So here's my nookie-nook, and I hope more and more women follow your advice. But I think there's still the old problem that a "nice" woman isn't supposed to get a kick out of flashing her puss.
Well I'm 29, married 4 years with one child. My husband decided to marry me when he found out that I didn't wear panties most the time. I loved to trim my Miss Nook too. But I took me two years to say yes, time enough for me to see if he could adjust to the fact that I love masturbation and need a vibrator to have an orgasm. Once I got him to masturbate for me without any kissy-kiss, he got rid of his corporate inhibitions quickly.
Hi Dr. Betty:
I discovered the pleasures of my genitals at very young ago, maybe 6 or 7. I remember rubbing most of my toys, my teddy, my rubber duck, my pencil pack, against my pussy. Mom was very liberated, a kind of hippy, and used the word pussy, so she had to explain to me why BeBe, our pussy cat had the same name. When I discovered my clit playing on our sun porch, Mother, God bless her, said that was the main source of pleasure for women. That's all. Not one word of criticism or caution.
Hi Dr. Betty,
The first time I pleasurably touched myself I was about 4 years old. Never before had anything felt so delightful. I remember rubbing the opening and I think I even put a finger in there. I remember falling asleep smelling my finger.
When I was about 6 years old my best girlfriend and I used to play a game that we knew we had to hide from our families. We would get completely naked and lay in bed together. We rubbed and fingered one another's pussy. We sometimes lay naked on top of one another and kissed lip to lip but never with open mouths.
Dear Betty,
I have always liked the appearance of my pussy, its pearly texture, smooth shape, and I can't resist sticking my fingers all around in my vagina while I masturbate my clit. I started playing around with my cunt as early as I can remember, maybe four or five. I started sticking things into my cunt by seven or eight and discovered the wonderful sensations coming from my clit maybe a year later. I had my first orgasm at nine and after that became a confirmed masturbator.
Hi Betty,
I am 30 now. I got married two years ago. I thought I would never get married because I am such a show off and a chronic masturbator. Much as I love fucking, I realized years ago that I loved masturbating even more. I have loads of sex toys that I use all the time. But the Magic Wand is my old stand-by and I have three of them, one for the living room, one for the bathroom, and one for the bedroom.
Dear Betty,
I go along with your campaign to get women to love their pussies. I have always been fascinated with mine. I masturbate all the time. Starting really young, I remember rubbing my rubber duck in my little crack at about 5.
I loved playing doctor with many of my friends. I knew about my clit by 10 and called her "buzzer" because she gave me such a buzz. I'm 29 now and bisexual but you can think of me as a "master" as in "mastur-bater." After having sex with either a guy or fem, I always jill-off when I get home by myself. Betty, I am a sex addict and love it.
Meg
Hi, Betty!
Some of my earliest memories are of feeling sexual. When I was six I did stripteases for my sister's friends when they would sleep over. I remember grabbing my lips and stretching them open so all of her friends could get a full view of my pussy. Later, maybe seven, when girls or boys asked, I would let them watch me peeing.
When I was a teenager and I played truth or dare with my friends, I always acted like I dreaded sexual dares, but secretly I craved them. Because I acted like I didn't like them, my friends usually came up with sexual dares for me. My biggest turn on was that they would all watch me perform the dare.