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Thu, 09/30/2010 - 19:35
Submitted by allwaysreadytwo

i was working with this customer and tried to talk her. I asked if she was single she said she was not interested cool. Then she says"no offense but a woman knows if she want to have sex with man in 2 seconds and you are not my type.

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Fri, 10/01/2010 - 19:01
mammal

She didn't say you were unattractive, just you weren't her type. So from that perspective-not that offensive. But yeh, I think I'd get my nose a little bit bent out of shape if a guy said something like that to me- it's not like you asked her to have sex with her then and there, and from my perspective there doesn't seem a need to include sex in the conversation. My best guess is she just wanted to keep shopping there without creating a possiblity that you might become an insistent flirt. And that I can understand- it can be difficult to deal with unwelome flirtatious comments from people who don't take no as an answer. She's probably had problems like that before and is just 'nipping it in the bud'. Don't take it personally or let it affect your self-esteem, but respect her wish for you not to revisit that topic.

Of course it's cool.  She

Fri, 10/01/2010 - 13:55
Carlin Ross

Of course it's cool.  She has the right to rebuff any advance.  It's her pussy after all.  What I find interesting is that some men really get all bent out of shape when you're honest about their level of sexual attractiveness.  Yet men do the very same thing when you pass them on the street.  A man knows if he finds a woman attractive and he has no problem sharing his feelings.

When you meet someone new, you do a quick scan and they either go in the fuckable or not fuckable category.  Can you get out of the unfuckable category? Yes, but you have to be in a situation where she can get to know you (ie work with her, befriend her brother etc) and you have to be pretty fucking charming.

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