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Thu, 10/09/2008 - 08:01
Submitted by Dodo

Hi,

Me & my partners favourite position is causing me serious problems.

Its the best position for me to orgasm purely from penetrive sex, but immediately after we stop, I'm in excruciating pain in my stomach for about 10 minutes. Sometimes its so bad I feel sick and cant move but it always ends in me having to rush to the toilet for a number two. After which, I feel fine.

Is this normal??

Its beginning to become a pain now as I have to just sit on the loo for ten minutes as soon as we finish, which isnt very nice for either of us.

I'm sure the solution would be to not use this position, but its so good at the time and I just want to know why it happens?

Help!!

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Thu, 10/16/2008 - 22:59
sativariver

hi

This was horrible for me. After orgasm, I would have this horrible stomach ache. It would have me crying, and I am not easily moved to tears by physical pain. Then, I had a series of 3 colonics. I went to a professional and had them done. A colonic does a lot more than an enema because their equipment is able to cleanse the entire large intestine. An enema is only able to get the rectum. They were once per week for three weeks. After that, I did not have that pain at all. Never. That's been 6 years so far. I am thinking about getting another series for my general health and to prevent that pain from ever coming back.

I can relate. The sex was great but then I felt bad and he felt awful because he felt responsible. That was no fun. Now we have great fun.

I'm assuming that you're

Thu, 10/09/2008 - 13:25
Carlin Ross

I'm assuming that you're talking about doggie position...correct?  My man is very well endowed and we can only do that position when I have nothing in my stomach - and nothing in my bowels.  

Try using an enema before sex or waiting until you're all clear (shh....that's what they do in the porn industry: no food after 6pm if shooting the next day and an enema to boot).

 

Thanks for that. Its

Fri, 10/10/2008 - 08:18
Dodo

Thanks for that. Its actually not doggie thats the problem - thats absolutley fine, its when im on my back with my legs hooked over his shoulders that it does it.

Maybe I'll just have to sacrifice the enjoyment and use a different position - I've never been one for planning when to do it, or not eating after 6pm for that matter!

Thanks for the reply though, at least I know its not just me x

An enema may be more than it takes.

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Wed, 10/15/2008 - 23:16
Nobilis

It might be enough to hit the bathroom before you have sex.  Have you tried that?

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