Why are women caddy and back stabbing towards each other????

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Sat, 05/23/2009 - 19:57
Submitted by mssaigon73

I am at a new job and for the most part I love it. Most of the people are great. But I notice when a certain supervisor is on and a certain nurse.....they are caddy back stabbing bitches.

Now  I am known as the masseuse of my ER. I give 5 to 10 minute massages to anyone of my coworkers that are in need and aren't idiots about it. One of the doctors who never ask me, asked and I gave him one.And I helped him out again last night. One of the nurses made a real big deal out of it. I only massaged the neck and shoulders. She went to my supervisor and complained. Now both of them told the doctor that it was inappropriate behavior and that it must be stopped. But yet I was not spoken to.The doctor told me when I went up to him and touched him in his shoulders speaking of his knots in his shoulder blades. I am so angry at these women. Nothing is said when I am massaging a woman, which I also did in front of this bitch of a nurse,who complained. My other supervisor makes no comments to me and receives massages from me. But the younger supervisor has made it an issue where it didn't have to be. I could see if my work was not being done and I was not fulfilling my  duties, or if I was crossing the line with my massages. I never go more than 5 minutes and I don't touch people in inappropriate places. I feel bad for the doctor who was spoken to. He is stressed out enough now to be spoken to in such a way .....he doesn't deserve it.

Why do women do this to each other? Why do they have to belittle,back stab, and be just plain vicious to other women in the workplace? Now I am one of the single girls there and I am not "husband hunting".I am not trying to land a doctor for a husband. I just get along better with the men at my job. Most of the women are cool and feel the same way I do. But the handful that can't seem to handle the world not revolving to their specifications....... they are pathetic. I have no respect for women like that.