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too slippery when wet??

Wed, 06/03/2009 - 23:50
Submitted by crush_girl

met a new guy.  had sex the other night, and he kept slipping out. He's not very big, but I was really really slippery...and I think he might of even complained about that (for reals? geez!) so, what's up with this? What went wrong? man, i was holding on as tight as I could.

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Sun, 06/14/2009 - 20:09
Gun_shy (not verified)

You said this was a new guy. This may just be a case of first time awkwardness. I understand Carlin's point about "fit," but a good fit doesn't always happen the first time (or first few times). You may just need to work with him. Of course, if the guy can't take a little instruction, it doesn't really matter how big he is, he's probably not worth bothering with. You should be able to figure that out pretty quicky. Especially if he tries to blame you with an excuse as lame as "too wet."

A word of warning about woman on top. If you are a bouncer, sliding up his penis and coming down kind of hard, if he slips out and you land on him, it won't be fun for either of you. I speak from painful experience.

Doubt it was due to wetness

Sun, 06/14/2009 - 15:19
jenson

I'm on the smaller size as well @ 5in.  My wife can get extremely wet and it's generally better because of it. 

I'm guessing it could be size/position related. The only time slipping out is from certain positions that don't necessarily allow for full entry.  It also happens, from too much range of motion.  For instance, if my wife's on top and goes up too high, I can slip out where a longer man would not.

okay

Sun, 06/14/2009 - 16:47
crush_girl

thanks for sharing, jenson. If it's position/too much range of motion, what position would remedy the problem I experienced? I thought woman on top would allow for more control. I suppose missionary position with legs up over the man's shoulders might be better? and were there certain positions that made extra wetness necessary? Can't believe I am asking all of this....

well...

Mon, 06/15/2009 - 13:07
jenson

As far as range of motion, such as with you on top, just don't go up as high.  That is, shorter strides.

I'm by no means an expert here, but any of the basic positions wouldn't be an issue.  I know slipping out's been a problem in reverse cowgirl as well as a variation of doggie where I more on top rather than right behind her.  Regular doggie, missionary, cowgirl (girl on top) we haven't had any problem with.

I don't know that extra wetness has ever been necessary, but doggie does best with us when she's very wet.  She is tighter on me in that position so the wetness really lets things move along as it were.

to wet?

Fri, 06/05/2009 - 14:32
eleni223

Ok, I'm on my feminist movement today.  What I read from your post is that your lover was complaining that you were too wet and that is why he was slipping out.  Now, you are feeling guilty that you got too wet and you're wondering what you can do about it.

You get wet because you are sexually aroused.  How can a woman get too wet?  We never hear a man complaining that he got too hard. If your new lovers size is the problem, and that's what it sounds like to me, then either find a larger lover or if you feel you want to keep this one experiment with different postions so he can go deeper, but, don't ever think that your getting too wet is a problem and if a man ever trys to make you feel this way, then I wouldn't give him the pleasure of your wetness anymore.

thanks..

Fri, 06/05/2009 - 01:49
crush_girl

though I really don't wanna believe he's smaller than other dudes.. Perhaps he just wasn't hard enough going in at the beginning. i was really really dripping. maybe too early to come to conclusions....

If you move on to anal...

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Thu, 06/04/2009 - 13:30
tom.penry

...you may appreciate his smaller size. When is  is in the backyard and you are working your clitty with a Magic Wand', you could reach rapture.

good sex partners are all

Thu, 06/04/2009 - 12:26
Carlin Ross

good sex partners are all about fit.  Sounds like he's too small for you.  However, there are times when a pussy can be too wet and a guy can't feel enough friction.  I guess you could try to try out your fluids a bit maybe drink some alcohol or take a benadryl but I have to admit that I have a wet pussy and it's never been too wet if they're dick was average size.

"most people are fools, most authority is malignant, God does not exist, and everything is wrong" Ted Nelson

I've experienced similar problem...

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Sat, 06/06/2009 - 05:27
newbiehere

I've experienced guys falling out because of how wet I am too. I get EXTREMELY wet. I've never ever used lube once in my life. No need to. But the average size guys just don't seem to be able to stay in in any other positions besides doggy or missionary. I've OFTEN felt it was my fault for being too wet... so I can definitely feel for the original poster in her asking, b/c I've OFTEN asked the guy if it's a problem that I get so wet...