Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
Hello all. I so love the cherrybomb Youtube channel, it's like chatting with my best lifelong girlfriends... I've been actively promiscuous and sex positive since my first intercourse at age 17, well, in fact, from my first kiss at age 14, bisexually so. However, with age, the pool has gotten smaller, and my expectations of male performance and attraction have gotten stricter, call it experience :)
I've recently moved back to my small mostly Caucasian town, I'm 45, voluptuous and fit physique, and have preferred casual sex over long term relationships my entire life. However, promiscuity in a small town at my age is not really a feasible option... so I've been going without sex lately. Boring!
I'm thinking I need to try a new outlook, something where I can have some degree of casualness and freedom, and yet remain discreet... hmmm. I know a guy down in Florida who acts as an on-call third wheel. He's very popular at it. All his friends are now from the couples sector of life :)
Maybe other well experienced people here might have other suggestions?
There's another difficulty... I've grown very very fond of intact men, very. But men my age in Canada are nearly all circumcised. I had good sexual satisfaction before encountering intact men, but since encountering intact men, my joy of sex has been multiplied many fold.
In some ways, I wonder if I can ever again be happy in a small remote town :( But to move because of sex seems silly! Oh dear!
unless I give up casual sex forever, sigh...
I look forward to chatting with you all :)
Hi Northern Tracy why not try
Hi Northern Tracy why not try one of the internet dating sites. You could meet people on skype 1st and if it sparks, meet in person. Looking around the internet widens your pool and you could meet people who are specifically interested in the same kind of sex or kink as you too.
Hi :) I tried that for a 3-4
Hi :)
I tried that for a 3-4 years and met only liars, and worse :(
I have found people consistently misrepresent themselves on dating sites. In addition, I've always written complete & candid descriptions, and I swear most people simply don't read them. But then again... I wasn't looking for couples... :)
My town's not only very small but also extremely remote, so it's not like I can have fun with people from the town next door, there are none.
I'm stuck in a life choice dilemma :)