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Hi!
I;m new to this site and new to masturbations and orgasms too - a bit of a late starter as I;m 36 and wonder how come I got left behind. Enough of the negativity I'm trying to make up for it now and i read somewhere on this site that there will be some instructional type videos coming to the site soon. This sounds like just what i need as i dont really know what to try but Carlin or Betty, could you tell me when these will be ready and where i can find them please?
Also, it would be great to hear from anyone who had similar experiences to me in that they never masturbated when young and as a result are not very orgasmic. I'd love to know any tips.
Thanks x
"I have to admit that I strongly dislike........"
.......that statement you always post by Ted Nelson. To each thier own (and notice that I didn't use the word hate), but statements like that only speak for half of the truth and not the whole. In my opinion, it is such a cop-out and it mainly assumes the worst in all that life has to offer. Both of my parents I consider great because they lived by a simple creed without ever spouting it, and it is this-----to always seek the best in the worst of everyone. Well, it's simple, but not @ all easy. Because we all have so many shortcomings and believe in so many falsehoods, but also all have tremendous assets and possess incredible courage. So shine on that! Capitalize on the good qualities humanity has to offer, for once. Why don't we all just accept that both men and women are @ least half-crazy by God-given design and have a hearty chuckle about it. Maybe the entire game was rigged to begin with, did you ever think of that? For the record, the God that I believe in has a great sense of humour. And Sex and the City? Are you kidding? Maybe you should take a look @ some real evidence. That's just goofy. And I'm laughing with you, not @ you, because I'm just as goofy if not more.
But sure, I can get just as pessimistic, and you can all see where this gets me.........Heres' a famous quote by Jack Nicholsen---------
"When I think of a man, I think of a woman. Then I take away reason and accountability."
I have to admit that we love
I have to admit that we love your "hate" comments. I read them aloud to Betty and we giggle like school girls. We're honored that you think our site is the most disgusting site on the Internet. That's no easy task.
We don't publish your comments because we want this site to be a place where people "discuss" topics without fear of someone damning their soul to hell. We have no problem with debate. We have a problem with name calling.
You are quite right that women have promiscuous natures; however, the prevailing belief is that men stray and women fall in love. So I don't think we're living in a world where men crave romance. My evidence: Sex and the City.
On the dismissal of sexology as a "real" science, sexology is really the study of human behavior. The only reason we're here on this earth is to procreate that's why we have a sex drive. The desire for sex and the need for sexual expression is common to all of us...it unites us...it is a benchmark from which we can understand what makes us tick.
And I have to stick up for attractive women. I heard that same arguments when I graduated summa cum laude. It was all about me fucking the dean or blowing every professor to make the grade. The truth was that I saw education as my way out of a life of drudgery and worked 2 jobs to put myself through college. I didn't suck one dick to get where I am today. I did suck many dicks for my own pleasure. Girls just want to have fun.
I would argue that it's harder to be an attractive woman AND be intelligent. No one hears anything you say. No one cares if you have a thought. It's assumed that you're stupid because you gave them an erection. Now there are a few men who get it...that value your mind as much if not more than your body. That's what you hold out for.
I'm glad you found our site. I welcome a straight up debate on the issues as long as it doesn't devolve into judgment and condemnation. Let's focus on the issues and the facts. We're always game for intelligent exchange.
"most people are fools, most authority is malignant, God does not exist, and everything is wrong" Ted Nelson
We're working on the videos
We're working on the videos and getting them on the site as we speak. When I have a date, I'll post it ;)
"most people are fools, most authority is malignant, God does not exist, and everything is wrong" Ted Nelson