Betty Dodson with Carlin Ross
Better Orgasms. Better World.
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My Romantic Love Wars: A Sexual Memoir - EBOOK EDITION |
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Betty Dodson Liberating women one orgasm at a time |
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Jessica Kramer Liberating Birth |
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I'm new to the site and all and let me tell you I love it here!! Okay so I'm 23...I'm pretty healthy and I've been a reigilous masturbator since about 18 years old. My problem is I only orgasm using my toys and I only orgasm when I use a toy on my clit.
I can never orgasm while having sex with a guy. I get super close but nothing seems to push me over the edge except for the few times I have used my toy with the person I'm having sex with.
What can I do to change it, besides have alot more sex which I have plenty of??
Should I stop masterbating for a while?? I really don't want to, but I don't know what else to do.
Thanks much!
Exactly, bring your vibe
Exactly, bring your vibe into the mix. It won't hurt anything, and it'll even add a little to HIS stimulation if you hold it right.
Abstinence makes The Church grow fondlers.
Stick With The Toys
There is nothing wrong with combining self play with having fun with a lover; it can be quite special. Stick with what works for you and worry less about how you get there. x