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Help! Painful Clit Stopping Me From Orgasm

Mon, 08/23/2010 - 21:58
Submitted by demecat

Hi,

I have an issue that is stopping me from having an orgasm. My clit is very very sensitive. While the pleasure builds and I naturally lubricate, my clit gets more and more sensitive to the point where it hurts so much that I (or my partner) has to stop because the pain cuts through the pleasure. The super sensitivity doesn't just end there though. I get it inside too. There is nothing medically wrong with me (I've had all the swabs and tests), I'm just really sensitive. Does anyone else have this problem and if so, do you have any strategies that might help me overcome it?

I also have a bit of an embarressing reflex when I (or my partner) hits 'the right spot'. My leg twitches! Please tell me I'm not the only one so I can get over the embarressment!

Thanks,

Demecat

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sensitive clit

Sun, 09/19/2010 - 20:09
kaci (not verified)

I have the same problem. I have to be careful not to push down too hard on my clit and make sure my partner does the same. When using a vibrator, make sure it is always to the side. The leg twitches because the orgasm is powerful, it surges through the entire body. Just enjoy the reaction your body has and thank god the orgasm was that strong.

sensitive clit

Thu, 09/09/2010 - 00:46
80s guy

My wife has the same problem you just have to learn the art of the right touches, and I have to be careful when performing oral sex. Like the other person said stimulation through the clitoral hood helps not as intense as stimulation directally on the clit I know this can get frustrating we have been there keep trying you will find things that work for you.

sensitive clit

Thu, 09/09/2010 - 00:45
80s guy

My wife has the same problem you just have to learn the art of the right touches, and I have to be careful when performing oral sex. Like the other person said stimulation through the clitoral hood helps not as intense as stimulation directally on the clit I know this can get frustrating we have been there keep trying you will find things that work for you.

No Way! I Thought I Was The Only One.

Sat, 08/28/2010 - 04:04
BeccaSue62 (not verified)

i actually have the same problems. esp. on the twitching. i get so embaressed with my partner. i seem too not be able too orgasim through intercourse, only through toys with partner (clit stimulaters), or while he is doing oral on me. as soon as i finally get off i start twitching like crazy in my legs&&make him stop. he thinks it awesome&just keeps wanting too go, but i cant take it, i want more, but just twich WAY too much, &&then i get WAY too sensctive and pull his head it up. i wish i could find something too stop both. but its glad too know im not the only person it happens too. dont feel so bad about it now.(:

I've had that w/just

Sun, 08/29/2010 - 00:39
celibate 35 years (not verified)

I've had that w/just masturbating and found that if I just take a moment w/no stimulation and move the vibrator/toungue to a close by area, I can have my orgasm. Sometimes we just quiver in anticipation of the "big moment" but must take it down a notch to get there.

My clit is very sensitive

Wed, 08/25/2010 - 07:07
blueberryjuice

My clit is very sensitive too. At a certain point of arousal, I cannot touch my clit directly. I can rub the base of it through the hood, though, or, if I'm alone, I rub it through a layer of cloth.

As for the leg twitching, I'm not sure why you find this embarrasing. Part of the fun of sex is loosing control and being a little wild. For most people that takes the form of moaning, grunting, gasping, etc. For me, I also have the urge to grasp things in my hands. In your case your body also moves a certain way. That's fine. Just go with it, and let yourself enjoy the ride.